Alright so im 18 and i started having sex back in august ... my hymen didnt break until about january tho.. (my bf isnt little either) after it broke i began experincing pain during initial insertion lol and ya just for like a minute or so but then and still it is extremely painful and sex didnt used to be painful also i bleed a bit but tonight i bled quite a bit more then usual .. anyone have any ideas as to what is wrong wtih me? ( i am going to a doctor on saturday) *no, i dont have stds.. been checked about 2 monthes ago and am in a monogomous relationship)
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Please Help
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How is it possible that your hymen didn't break though five months of intercourse? Do you mean that it didn't tear all the way? Or did he only insert for a small distance? Or are you saying you had sex but not intercourse? Are you sure it wasn't something other than the hymen that tore?
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it didnt break or rip i guess it just stretched and over time decided to break.. has a mind of its own lol ya and my bf isnt small either and yes we were having full on sex pretty much every day for five months so pretty much i didnt really understand it either but ya..
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Hmmm...sounds like what you think happened actually did happen. I'm stumped. It'll be interesting to hear what the doctor has to say, but I'd wager it's nothing serious.
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no it cant be nothing.. its like intense pain when we start having sex.. not on the outside but inside of me.. like sharp abdominal pains as well as blood afterwards.. it doesnt make sence to me either i used to have painless sex not agonizing dread sex .. its fine after a minute.. maybe two but at first its like and undescribable pain (ithink that maybe i have cervicis?)
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I didn't mean nothing, just nothing life-threatening. In any case, I'd rely on the opinion of the doctor who examines you a lot more than my opinion. I might guess vaginismus (pain caused by spasms of the vaginal muscles), if blood weren't present. Maybe this page would be of some help: Painful Sex -- TheSite.org; or this one: Dyspareunia: Painful Sex for Women.
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It's got to be something else. You can't have sex for months and not break it. Not to mention the fact that a lot of people's break long before sex due to sports, etc. Plus if you've ever had a pelvic exam, they most likely would have broken it with a speculum.
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I think this question really needs that examination you'll get on Saturday to answer it.