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theres this guy who im seeing, we're not bf/gf we're just sorta hook up buddies. he lives like 40min away so its tough to see eachother but when we do, its like we are bf/gf. we act as if we are anyway. but i think hes also dating a 15 yr old who lives out of state. he tells me hes not but i see things online that says hes gonna see her next weekend for easter and this other stuff. it makes me really upset, but i hate bringing it up all the time to him because i feel like a stalker, always trying to figure out what hes doing. any suggestions would help, im really lost on this one..thanks

LOL on this one to im definetely in your position. I say you just go for it and tell him. it'll show him u care about him n maybe its all in your imagination. life is to short just do it

Yeah, just go for it. He seems to be stopping you from looking elsewhere, tell him how you feel and find out if he likes you. If he does, great, have fun but if he doesn't, move on, don't let something like this hold you back.

how old is this guy?

hes my age, 17. and i do know that he likes me. he told his best friend who is dating my best friend that if he could go out with one girl rite now, it would be me. but the problem is that he lives 40min away and my parents arent too keen on the whole dating scene yet. so i would have to do it secretly, which is tough because its not like he lives in my town.

Girl, I know how you feel. I have to stop myself from trying to stalk people. I think the reason why you care about what he's doing is because you know there is another girl and you dont have all his attention. I know that shit drives me crazy. I like this guy and he said he likes me, but he doesnt act like it. There are these guys who like me and they're really nice and I know they'll treat me nice, but I still want the other guy. You see? I think its something programmed inside of us. It's human nature. People tell you to find someone else, but you cant help how he makes you feel.

thats exactly how i feel, i always want what i cant have, then when i finally get it, i dont want it as much anymore. thats a major flaw of mine that i wish i could change

And it doesn't really help that the guy who doesn't want you is really fuckin' hot! :grin: