Lost It

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I have lost it. I just want to get laid now. I do not care about relationships anymore. I want sex, that is all i want. See what patience does to you. makes you a better person short term, but too long and a person just losses all care.

Just keep waiting. I got to the point where you are now. It went away a few months later. Just stick it out if your trying to save yourself till marriage. Personally, I dont care, I just want it to be a some what special person.

Well the thing is, I never tried to stay virgin, I just did. I have never been even to the point of being real close with a girl...I was so all over the place with my parents getting divorced...so, i am just wanting to have sex b/c i want to know what it is like.

try to wait it out. i know it sounds hard to believe, but in the long run, you will be much more happy if you can look back on your first experience and say that it was truely in love, not because you paid some chick to screw you.

In reply to: Just stick it out if your trying to save yourself till marriage HAHAHA no pun intended?-and walkin....i know where ur comin from man im in your position to. I just want to because of all the urges and im gettin fuckin sick of bein sucha "good" person, it blows. And you know what pisses me off is the thought of girls i like not bein virgins, like it always bothers me to think they were fuckin some other guy u know? and the fact that they know what its like and i dont. it makes me feel like such a loser. its not even that i care what others think, it just bothers me. ugh iono what to do man i mean i aint no whore but iono

well, there was no pun intended. but, i think all of us guys can agree, we kinda put the guys who are not virgins on a pedestal. they are in a way, more advanced than us, but think of how much more self discipline you have over them.

Just be careful guys. Trust me, the last thing you wanna do is have this vague memory of losing it to some girl in a lawn chair, or to do it and then be accused of doing something horrible.Just be careful...really... It really is worth taking your time with and waiting. You only get one first time.

comming from a guy who's 33. Humm, that sounds like a personal account.

I know what i am going to do. I know two girls back at home who i have known for years and I am going to have them show Walken how its done. Oh Mandy and Stephanie, to great gals...Loved me to death when were younger and still have not forgotten about me.

walken man ur my age, i just noticed. But i know how u feel trust me. dont just do it with some random broads that are ur backup whores or whatever. As much as i just wanna do it, i wanna do it with someone special.

they are special...we know each other very well. I like them both dearly, but i imagine they want to go out (they have already asked, but i am here in Indiana, they are in Cali)

You better hope they don't read this and see their names...that might put a crimp in your plan.

i would not mind if they did. They already know... :wink:

Wait.

how do you suggest i cope with these urges then. Masturbation sucks, it is so stupid. I hate doing it now. I get bored. I mean it is no fun. Sitting and looking or imagining or something and then pleasing yourself...oooo fun, fuck that. I am ready for more, I know of the reprecutions, and the risks.

I agree totally thats what i found it is. When im busy between work n school i have no time to even think about nething like that, it bothers me in no way. But lately im on my spring break and bored as hell so i think about it. I just need to get outa the house and do somethin with me time and ill be good. So try that just keep busy with other stuff, pick up a hobby or somethin

I lost it with the girl I love and I feel is perfect for me, and luckily I met her quite early, aged 18. What made it so much better is that she lost it with me as well.Thing is, if you wait too long to meet the girl you love, there's less chance in you being their first as well, which meant a lot to me, and probably will to you considering how long you waited.Are you actively looking for someone? If not, then that's obviously why you're frustrated - you can't say you're saving it for love when you're not even close to getting that.

Walken, buddy, I am very dissapointed. When I saw your name next to "lost it" I immediately jumped up with a big "wooooo hooo" until I realised, it wasn't your virginity.I suggest the best solution to your need for sex is something I like to call "sex". I've found it extremely helpful. I've made many close friends due to it. I've learned many things and, as I've shared in the past, had some rather remarkable experiences. The only things I regret are opportunities not taken.

Well im looking but having no luck whatsoever. if you read my "ode to the nice guy" post it explains my issues. but im not necessarily waiting for love, just someone i care about deeply where itll mean something to me. iono it makes no sense, it does in my head though

i had sex this morning