Ok im 15 and have a g/f who is 15. Shes 3 months younger than me and I always tease her about it. Anyways we have been going out for over 8 months and we both love each other or so we say. Now I am the 1st real b/f she has had and like she had her 1st kiss with me and stuff. Now she is kind of a shy girl and we dont talk about "sex" stuff at all. Not sex in general but you know what I mean. When I go to her house and we watch a movie in her basement we always cuddle up next to each other. Just recently we have been kissing more and making out more. Then like when we are just sitting there she lets me like put my hand on her breasts. Like we still have all of our clothes on so its not like that but I dont know if she is wanting me to do stuff or just do a motion with her or whats going on. I dont care bout sex or anything like that but I just want to make her happy so what do you all think she is getting at? Also if you think she is wanting anything like for me to rub her or waht not what is a way to do it and all that stuff. Just nervous and not knowing what to do here.
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Just help
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I'd say its just that shes growing up and although sex might not be on the card she feels shes still got to move the physical stuff forward. Hard to explain, i know what i mean in my head like. Shes probably experimenting/letting you experiment with her since shes comfortable with you. Its like you don't learn to kiss then learn to have sex theres stuff in between that you learn before you get to the sex. Just part of growing up...I know what i mean anyhow Don't be nervous, its a good thing she feels this comfortable around you, if you've been going out for months you should feel ok about what shes doing, the way you get more intimate is by touching each other in increasingly sexual ways, just do the equivilent to her that she does to you if ur having problems reading her.
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Or, you could just ask questions. :grin:
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Heres another thing. Like when we are just sitting there she like puts my hand on her breast. I dont know if shes hinting she wants me to gow up her shirt or whats that all about. Just dont know whats the best approach.
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Next time she does that, keep you hand there for a while massaging, and then slowly bring your hand down and slowly work your way up under her shirt. She'll stop you if she doesn't want it, and everything will be ok.