Girlfriend is embaressed

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My girlfriend is sometimes embaressed about her figure (by that i mean her stomach and breasts) she doesnt like to show them to me although she says she doesn't mind me seeing them I think she doesn't like them herself.I'm sort of at a loss here, I like to see her and she really doesn't have a bad figure at all, nor does she have anything wrong with her breasts... Anyhoo is there anything i could do to help her feel more self confident about herself? I think she has a low self esteem because she can't see anygood in her at all...but shes a really caring person, not to mention cute.

Arnt all women like that, and i quote "does this dress make me look fat?"

Erh, no I mean she really has no self confidence...she doesnt see herself as any good at all. Whereas if i look at myself i just see a normal guy...Plus she doesnt understand why im going out with her..

sigh, it might be that damn media always telling people they should look glamerous.

Yeah, females are expected to look pretty and use loads of makeup these days...

Monkey999 I agree with you. Damn the media..and porno movies. lol. Well you can give her compliments...if she smiles and looks down thats a good sign. Or she kinda giggles and tells you to stop(means don't stop complimenting) But don't compliment too much..it just seems like you're not honest.Maybe you can...or if she'll let you..touch her in those places. Tell her she looks gorgeous in some kind of clothing. Let her know you enjoy her showing you them! lol....well honestly, its time that will probably make her reveal them. You know nothing comes free in this world.Itsnot like she has no confidence..its just..she's afraid you might be kinda disappointed that she's not big boobed(or bigger) and flat stomached like the celebrities.

Thanks for the reply Thing is if i compliment her she just sorta denies them...for example, if i were to say "I like your hair" shed say it was horrible, or if i said she looked beautiful she'd say i was lieing...and I'm not! Yeah she lets me touch them just sometimes she will suddenly get embaressed for no reason...

I know how your girlfreind feels, and to be honest only she can change how she feels about herself, but you can help, by doing what you are doing, complimenting her etc ( I used to tell my fiance was talking shit when he complimented me) its a hard road tho, gary says he used to get SO mad when i wouldn't take a compliment he gave me, but now, i know he means them. You sound like a great guy, just keep doing what your doing, telling her she looks great in somethings etc and hopefully eventually she will get it too!

OK, thanks for the help

yeah a lot of porn portrays the sexy, slim, big breasted women but if you have those and she is lacking cofidence then get a porn where the ladies are a bit bigger, or small breasts. there are a lot of options out there as far as porn goes, I should know my girlfriend loves my variety of porn.

I wouldnt think of showing her porn...

LOL --That exchange was priceless!