Not sure if this is the right section or not. Well, I just met a girl who I feel for instantly. She was perfect..., but she has herpes. So I am lookin for opinions. We have not done anything sexual "yet". She got them from her first b/f and has had only that one out break. I like her alot, but this bothers me a lil. She has not passed it onto anyone includeing her last bf of 4 years and they did have unprotected sex a few times. My concern is it possible to have a relationship, sexual and all, if we're careful and I not get it. I know theres a always a chance, but I was wondering what others would do in my situation? I do like her alot and that is the only problem. It just happens to be a kinda big one.
What would you do
Honestly...I would not date her, or do anything sexual with her. Not to be mean but I rather not risk infecting my body even if its for love...unless I knew I would spend my life monogamous with them. But you're not, you just are infatuated. Don't mess up your future relationship with this one because not many people can accept herpes...not to be mean.
Very good point. Thanks alot.
Be real careful, one of my friends at school has Simplex 1 Herpes... And from what I understand, it is now spreadign around the school, I know of at least 3 others who have it from her (ex bf, his new Gf, and her "friend") And several others who are pissed off bcuz "she forgot" to tell them. She's a self labeled slut though.
There are ways to maintain a semi-normal relationship, their are drugs that supress most outbreaks, and you can avoid doing things when she does get one... Take it REAL slow, and make sure that she is "The One" before you get too serious.