yea so my first question is. How long is the average time for a guy to ejaculate? I mean I saw some videos and guys go for hours but I mean I understand that they stop the tape so the guy can "rest" but then the other is, is pre-ejaculating, coming early or just a little bit..sorta like a wet-dream kinda thing? Thanks to who-ever answers!
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Masturbation and pre-ejaculation
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Guys have no average time until an orgasm, but since sexual intercourse with a girl takes about 30 minutes you can say it would be anywhere between there, most guys don't usually last thirty minutes anyways. Guys can go for hours and hours and still not cum once, I've gone for over three hours and still didn't cum. Guys don't need to rest and don't need to stop the tape, besides stopping is rather disappointing.
Pre-cum is usually a small amount, about two drops or so, it just makes it easier for fluid to pass through when a guy fully ejaculates. Wet dreams are when guys ejaculate in there sleep unaware of it, they could be having a sexual dream and wake up with a wet spot in their underwear.
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Actually, that's not true for MOST guys. And what you see in porn is WAY off.
The average time for a guy to reach ejaculation when having sex, from the time he inserts his penis to ejaculation is only about 5 minutes. That's assuming a normal pace, and not stopping or slowing down to delay ejaculation.
Some guys can last for hours without cumming, but its pretty rare. Normal guys cum in 5 minutes, on average.
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Who has videos of porn that goes for hours anyways? Kama Sutra has some interesting and inventive ways to have sex and it helps guys control himself. I would never cum in five minutes with a girl, and I've had blowjobs that last longer then that easily, guys who do it slow and steady will have longer times and guys who just fuck real hard and fast are going to have times like five minutes, there is no set time and I merely said that most guys don't last more then one-half hour period, that means 90% of guys will have ejaculated once or more then once. So don't generalize because not all guys are the same or like the same thing, besides 25 minutes of foreplay would be a little much for just five minutes of sex, foreplay is supposed to get guys and girls more into it and not the main part of sex.
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In reply to:So don't generalize because not all guys are the same or like the same thing, Relax, Vivi. I didn't generalize. I said ON AVERAGE. Average does not mean everybody. If you last for 30 minutes or longer, good for you. I'm just saying that's much longer than AVERAGE. There are guys out there who don't cum for HOURS, and there are some who cum in seconds. What is important is to know what your time to orgasm is, and your partner's. Usually, the guy reaches orgasm before the girl does, because on average guys reach orgasm faster than girls do. This is a common problem where the guy reaches orgasm and stops having sex before his partner gets to orgasm, and its a cause of frustration for the woman. Another problem, although more rare, is when the guy takes much longer to reach orgasm than the girl does, and it takes so long that the girl's vagina starts to get too sensitive or even irritated without enough lube. That's why its important to have good communication about these things with your partner. Too often, partners don't communicate these things, and it causes frustration.
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For myself, not including fore-play, about 30 minutes.
We usually try 3 positions, the most common being doggy, missionary and front-straddle.
My gf always cums when we do it doggie-style. If I reach under and rub her clit, she will squirt like crazy.
It is a toss-up between doggie and front-straddle as her favorite position because she can cum 2 to 3 times easily.