ok.. i'm 15 and my mom says that i can't date until "after i'm married" and she says that i basically can't explore or experiment anything sexual. my dad on the other hand came home early and he "walked in on me". and he says he knows my mom is o.p. but he said i can do anything besides have sex.. i can explore and experiment. this might be a little much but i try to get myself off almost 2-3 times everyother night. and the fingering and stuff is getting boring and losing touch. i feel like i wanna talk to my mom or something like that but i'm scared.. what should i do?
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Help! my mom is to over protective
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Try to understand where your mom is coming from. Since you're a teenager, I know it will be hard to do. Talk to her and maybe you two will find some common middle ground. I dont completely understand your question though, are you asking permission to have sex?
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By any means i am not telling you to disobey your mom, but if your explore yourself, i dont see how she can say anything. She may not like you doing it but then your shouldn't be doing anything remotely like that infront of her or anyone else (except your husband and maybe a lucky LONG-TERM boyfriend) heh anyway, i dont know if talking to your mom about this topic is the best. I WOULD however talk to her about dating. My girlfriends parents were overprotective but i wiggled my way into them letting me date her. So dont give up hope, she knows your going to date eventually, she jsut doesn't want to admit it to herself. Don't let it bother you that she is ageanst it becasue that will cause you to hate her and that is Never good. Good Luck and about the exploring your body, read around this website and ask questions if you cant find the answers. There are some good people on this site. Have Fun.
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no its not that i am pleading or begging to have sex or anything like that. basically all i want is 2 simple things. to be trusted and to have a little bit of freedom, and to have a life she doesn't know about..if you get what i'm saying.
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know that your mom has your best in treast at heart and also know that 4 out of 5 women regret having sex before marrige and if you do deside to have sex dont let him PASS GO with out a condom pleasing your self is fine but i segusst you read all that afraid to ask has to offer about masturbation and sex.