When I get hard, my head only reaches its full size with some sort of touch to it, be it my hand/someone elses hand/a vagina. As soon as I let go, a tiny bit of knob size goes, but I kegel to help it retain size. However, if I am to lay back and completely stop touching my cock, my knob will quite suddenly shrink quite severely, becoming the same size as it is when flaccid, if not smaller. I can kegel blood in, and it retains slight size, but after a few moments the battle is lost and I am lieing there with a big hard on, but a small knob. I think my head may not retain blood properly, as when holding it I think that doing this 'holds' the blood in...and then when there is no contact the blood leaves my head for some reason. Please help, what can be done to fix this?
Penis head retaining blood
i have a similiar problem...
I have wondered about this myself. I don't think its a problem, but a preference. It does look odd to have a wide shaft topped by a narrower head. (Reminds me of the Ocracoke lighthouse, not mine, but the idea) When the shaft is squeezed, the head swells and looks better.
Any practical difference head size would make, quality of stimulation to the corona and glans, can be fixed by making sure such squeezing is part of the process, be it manual, vaginal or artificial.