I have no where else to ask for help, i have been seeing this girl for about 5 months now she has the cutest daughter in the world,,, anyyways i moved to escape my past leave it behind... i had an oopourtunity to make some money, so i asked her opinion about it.. she hates the idea, and desn't think i would be a suitable father figure for her child, i have been nothing but honest and open, i don't know what to do? is this one of the times i should of just lied? since when is lying better than telling the truth... or asking how ppl feel about certain things.... i dont understand, please help..... anythng please nevermind, when getting more details, i realize now she is right, thanx for your help anyway, at least i understand now... thanx
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I assume the opportunity to make money involved something unethical or illegal. I think sometimes, in some things, it is better to lie (for example, to answer the question "Do I look good in this?" truthfully is looking for trouble); but not in something as major as how you make money. Inevitably, if she stays with you, she will become at least passively part of it.
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dating girls with kids = bad
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dating girls who's boyfriend just died = bad
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oh well, i never dated a girl who had a dead boyfriend so it doesnt really apply anyways.
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You keep saying that. "Well, I never raped an old lady, so it doesn't really apply anyways."So if an idea is unethical, does it become ethical (or neutral) because you haven't put it into practice? What if through some miracle you were in the situation you described?Please, don't ever have children.
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In reply to:dating girls with kids = bad Only if the kid is like you!
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I absolutey hate kids, but I'd say the same to you to. Who even cares, it hasn't happened, probably won't happen, and to you it's the same as rape which it is far from. It happens everyday and those relationships go on without being questioned, but you're just too much of a wannabe "do-gooder" to see past that.
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In reply to:I absolutey hate kids, well then hopefully you won't want any!In reply to:but I'd say the same to you to. Who even cares, it hasn't happened, probably won't happen, and to you it's the same as rape which it is far from. what the hell are you wafflin on about??? In reply to: but you're just too much of a wannabe "do-gooder" to see past that. I'm a wannabe "do-gooder" am I? Well im glad you know me so much better than i obviously do
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Is do-gooder a word?.....just thought id throw that question out there to break the tension
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I think it probably is............and there isn't any tension where Im sitting hon...........:)
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I'm a wannabe "do-gooder" am I? Well im glad you know me so much better than i obviously d
i wasnt even replying to u in the first place
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He meant me. A wannabe do-gooder versus a wannabe outlaw.
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Sorry hon no your weren't - my bad.