Self loving

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I have been trying to masterbate for just about seven months now and I can't seem to get off. I only get bored and more frustrated than when I first started. My boyfriend can get me off, and he's tried to show me how to do it, and he's helped a lot, but I still can't do it. I have a vibrator and I've tried my clit and nothing seems to work. Is it a possibility that I just can't masturbate? Are there people out there who are incapable of pleasuring themselves?Has anyone heard about anything like this before or have any suggestions? Thanks

Awww hon i really feel for ya, you sound so pissed off with yourself. I have never been able to make myself cum with a vibrator, either inside me, or against my clit, its too much, when i cum im barley touching my clit, its swollen and so sensitive that too much touch won't make me cum at all - if you know what i mean.I always have to play with my nipples before and during the time i cum, and think of the things that turn me on, most of my best orgasms are when my head it full of images, lately the best was imagining myself in the same room as someone self sucking with me joining in huge grin I reckon you need to spend a good amount of time, on yourself, just you, experimenting on how things feel etc etc...........you know you can cum, you just need to give yourself time to learn all about you so you can do it yourself.....hugs

thanks for the help.It's kinda nice to know that I'm not the only person in the world with this kind of problem.I just feel like I'm broken sometimes. My breasts aren't sensative to any type of sensation. I can feel pain and tenderness, but having them caressed doesn't do anything for me.I just feel broken or cross wired sometimes.

I wasn't that much help was i really LOLYou're not alone or broken hon.I went through a period when i felt like all my pleasure zones were........not numb that isn't the right word, but kinda 'dull' if that makes sense...........I was stressed and actually suffering from depression(but didn't know it - not that i am saying you are by any means) and it was like the fire, instead of being a bright flame, was kinda like hot coals just about to go out..........so i worried about it, and got frustrated with myself and that made it worse! I don't know what to suggest except to say try to not make this a big deal - i think everyone if they are honest goes through a time like this, this will work out hugs

i have the exact same problem, its so frustrating!

You can kiss your kneecaps and inner thighs? How does that work? Can you stick your elbow in your ear too? lolSounds hot though.

i can kiss my knee caps and thighs, but then again i enjoy ballet

Why do you think those are things a man would never think of? I've done most of those things with a girlfriend and she loved it.I can't say I've ever met a girl who enjoyed having her toes sucked though. Although the thought of doing that to her is quite sexy.Still can't lick yourself though, right?

I can do the splits - am pretty bendy n stuff, but i know im never gonna be able to lick myself............good job really or my kids would starve laffin

Well that sucks. I hope you can find someone who is willing to do those things for you.

BTW -- that girl I told you about...forget her. I met someone else who I think is the most amazing person I've ever met, and we went out Saturday night and I can't wait to see her again. :grin:

"Mommy mommy we want some milk...""Not now, I'm busy licking myself..."

Whorah for ballet.Though I think that would be more of a cirque de soliel move than Paris opera or Bolshoi.sorry this was late, comp problems.