The first (and only) time that my girlfriend gave me head it felt really good but it wasn't enough to make me cum. Is this usual or not?
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Getting Head
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did you reach orgasm?
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he didn't cum...so no.
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I have the opposite effect with my man, but no it probably isn't uncommon, do you think you felt relaxed enough with your cock in her mouth to cum, or not? cos that might be the reason you didn't.
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I've gotten head from two women and neither one could make me cum. And you know I can suck myself and haven't cum from that either, although that may be because I can't get enough in yet.I might get laid this weekend so we'll see if this woman can do it for me...
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I've gotten head from two women and neither one could make me cum.
**Bet I could ** :wink:
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For awhile, the first few times I gave my boyfriend head he didn't cum. Which at first I thought was not normal, but I guess it's pretty common. I guess just tell your girl what feels best to you and guide her through it. communication is the best way to reaching what you want.
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In reply to:do you think you felt relaxed enough with your cock in her mouth to cum, or not? cos that might be the reason you didn't. That might have been the problem because we were doing it in a tent with other people around and neither one of us was completely at ease.
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That's not too uncommon. It could have been a psychological barrier, or you might just be a rare guy who doesn't get quite the right stimulation from oral sex to orgasm.Were you afraid of anything when she was doing it? Like, "What if I smell funny to her, what if I'm not clean enough, what if she isn't enjoying this, what if I cum in her mouth and she gets mad at me, what if we get caught, etc."Or, were you having trouble communicating to her what felt best? It's a lot more fun for her if you let out little moans and sighs and the occasional "Ahhh, that's good..." and the bonus is you can teach her what feels the best so she'll come to know how to best "finish you off". Also, you should feel free to tell her if she goes off into ehr own little world and starts accidentally using her teeth or anything and hurting you. And you should plan with her ahead of time if you are going to warn her when you think you are going to cum and have some tissues on hand in case she needs to use them or you need to clean up.Or... did you just not give it enough time? It can easily take 15-30 minutes, if not more. And the more you feel pressured to hurry it up, the harder it will be. Try not to have any expectations when you do it next time, other than to have fun and give each other pleasure. It should be a relaxed, sensual, loving thing; not a clinical exercise with strictly orgasm as the goal.
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Ahhh, you were doing it in semi-public... Well no wonder! Few people have enough abandon to let themselves go into the throws of an orgasm when there are people around just waiting to "catch" you at it. And she probably wasn't doing her best either because there are lots of tell-tale sucking and slurping noises to be had and going out of your way to avoid them means not giving it your all. Try it again in private when you have all the time in the world and you'll probably be pleasantly surprised!
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The first few times I recieved oral sex, I couldn't orgasm. But, after that, I havn't had a problem.Have a good day
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i almost always reach orgasm from headnever seem to be able to from a handjob
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Well, good news! We tried it again and it worked just fine. Thanks for all your support and suggestions.