Confused

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Hello. i'm new to this forum. I'm turning 14 in 19 days and I'm concerned about something.My dick is only 8cm long!All my friends say theirs are 10cm and 14cm and i'm so embarrassed when they ask me. I always leave msn when they do Anyway, why am i so tiny? also, ive only just started to cum when i wank, after a few years. whats with that?I'm also confused about... other feelings. I don't know why since ive had 3 girlfriends, but i can't help but sometimes have some feelings for other boys the weird thing is the next day i tell myself how lame it was to think that Any thoughts?btw, I'm from Australia

Hey bud, welcome! You can't compare your development with other guys, we all develop at different times and different speeds....so its natural that not all of you are the same size at your age....and guess what, none of you will ever be the same size in the penis department, each of you will be different. Penis growth can officially be over at the end of puberty which is age 21. However, most of us are done by our late teens and may notice the most growth around 15/16/17 or so..hang in there, you're just not developing as quickly as the others...and in the end, you may be the biggest of them all! Don't ever be embarassed about your equipment, be proud of it and use it wisely. And don't forget that other guys will exagerate their sizes! Again, some of us have our first ejaculation early in puberty, mine was about age 13. For some of us, its later in our adolescence...I've read that some guys didn't have one until age 15 or so....again, don't worry...what matters is that you're having them now, there is nothing "wrong" at all. As to those thoughts of other guys, again, this is really common. I believe that each of us go through a period of time in our deveoping sexuality where we're curious about other guys...what their penis and developing bodies look like, how they masturbate, how we "measure" up physically and all of that. Some of us (me included) do some same sex experimentation during this time, mutual masturbation, masturbating each other, attempts at oral sex....these things are more common than you realize (look around on this board and you'll see that) So don't worry about these thoughts you're having, they are totally normal and just part of your ongoing adolescent development. Enjoy the ride and take care of that equipment, its the only set you'll ever have! Feel free to ask more questions and stick around, you'll learn alot from others on the boards as well.

Thanks for the help. I've just come to realize that (I think) I'm bi-.

Yeah, don't worry about it - you're perfectly normal!I couldn't cum until I was almost 15, so you're ahead of where I was at your age! Your feelings for boys may just be a phase of puberty - it is very common. As you grow older, you may change your mind, or you may not, and that's fine too.

As for the bisexual thing, you shoudl also remember that wanting to have sex with guys, and actually 'loving' a guy are two different things. I myself would actually be curious to have sex with a guy, but I'm pretty sure I could never love one the way I could love a woman. I don't know if there's a word for that though.

curiosity?

When you say yur dick is 8 cm long do you mean hard or soft, or did you mean to write inches instead of cm

8CM soft... I are tiny I'm 10cm hard

You replied to the last post, rather than the person you meant to reply to.He meant 8 parsecs. That is just not normal.

In reply to:As for the bisexual thing, you should also remember that wanting to have sex with guys, and actually 'loving' a guy are two different things. I myself would actually be curious to have sex with a guy, but I'm pretty sure I could never love one the way I could love a woman. I don't know if there's a word for that though Dude…You can’t change who you are, or how you were born. And you can’t choose who your going to fall in love with... Be it male or female. Of course...This is something you learn as you mature….

In reply to:I myself would actually be curious to have sex with a guy, but I'm pretty sure I could never love one the way I could love a woman. I don't know if there's a word for that though. Yeah, that's called "bi-curious", and its pretty common.

Yeah, I remember seeing that word. Thanks.

In reply to: Yeah, that's called "bi-curious", and it’s pretty common Or it’s called "Straight" with homosexual tendencies…. LOL You got it right on the head Focus! (No pun intended..Heheheh)