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Why not? The longer it takes, the worse it is. I don't think the sister got pregnant to personally spite Smooches.

I have forgiven her, but you don't see it from my point of view. Things have happened in my household, and this just put the icing on the cake. And when you say "get over it". How do you just "get over it"? My sister who I have spent my entire life with (no duh) is pregnant and miserable. She has her whole life ahead of her and now it's been bumped. You can't just say "oh you're pregnant? that's nice. want a cookie?"

I didn't say "Just get over it". I said to try to get to the point that you can forgive her, but meanwhile, don't browbeat her, as you said you were doing. That adds no value. She must already feel bad enough.

Oh no not you Steve, I would never. I was talking about the other chick. But yeah I tried to ease up on her. For the past few hours I have been giving her the bright side of it. She's eating alot of ice cream though (not sharing... bum). But no I'm not making he feel as if she should die.

It is good that you are there for her, I admire that, but you also need to think, what will the father do? Does he even knows what's happening? How will he be responsible?Your parents are probably the best bet in getting out of this crisis. Really, you won't be able to hide it from them for too long. In seven months time, your sister can't just go "Oh, I put on some weights". Seriously, they need to know, I just don't know how to emphasize this.You're also saying that he should get his ass kicked, I agree, but he is the father. He should have a say in things as well but if he says "abortion", shoot him or something. Just stay calm, and don't hide things that are really important from your parents. The faster you tell them, the easier it will be for all of you.And don't scold her for doing mistakes, we're all human thus we make mistake to learn. A buddhist saying we have in Thailand: "Forgive, and forget". Try it, it will make things easier.I hope for the very best,- Taison! out [Edit] Strange. . . you're having three problems 3 days in a row. Well, if you keep it up, you'll probably enter a mental hospital soon. You seriously need to take a rest from all these crisis.

What has your sister decided, then?

ok im confused, why do you feel that you needed to forgive your sister...............for what? and why should you feel like she needs your forgivness anyway, its her life, she made the mistake and with support she will deal with it.If your sister is 19, then she has to cope with the concequences of her actions, its hard, but she has to make a decision, whether to abort the baby, or keep it, either desision will be a life long thing, having children is the greatest thing in the world, and you can be happy as a single parent tho its hard, but having kids isn't for everyone and she has to do whats right for her.

In reply to: I have 2 younger sisters and I know you guys can be--judgemental and rude. Do you mean all little sisters? Because that makes me sad... I never gave my sister any grief when she was pregnant, or because she became pregnant. Also, I never held anything against her boyfriend either- he didn't rape her, did he? Plus, it was my sister's fault she got pregnant anyways.

...but she has to make a decision, whether to abort the baby, or keep it...According to Smooches, she's squarely against abortion. Certainly Smooches is. (And Taison suggest shooting the boyfriend if he mentions it.) But there is the giving-up-for-adoption option.

Lol! Well, I like being alive, so I try not to be a bitch to either of my sisters, unless they are (or I am) being especially stupid or mean.

you are 100% right no1sexpointusa , shes seems like a little snotty bitch

Wow guys thanks for your wonderful support. I really didn't ask for you all tocurse me out like that. Good to know I'm a snotty little bitch. I love you too. I have problems in my life everyday. If I knew how to prevent them ahead of time I would. Please just don't say anything else to me right now. Thanks steve and T and angel. the only ones who actually care. My sister and I (and the rest of them) will find a way to work this out. I am too stressed right now. I wasn't "stomping through the house giving her "shit" honestly I try to keep cursing out of my vocab. You should too. Oh and the father knows everything. But guess where he is... sexing another girl. I don't want to see my sister hurt. I love her. My closest to age sister is yelling at her but I'm trying to calm down. You try being the referee for 5 crazy people.

I must apologize. I am being really crappy today. Alot has been on my mind. So I just want to say "sorry" to those of you on here who I got upset at. I had to go calm down so I just read some of my "remembered verses" from a bible given to me. I didn't mean to sound the way I did. I apologized to my sis, and the father is coming over today to talk with the rest of us and my parents about what to do. Thank you all for supporting. Love you much

**smooches hon, please don't feel like you have to apologise, some of the replies were shitty :smile: Hope your feeling a bit brighter when you read this, chin up girl, things always work out *big hugs* **

haha, you think YOU have problems? You haven't even seen a real 'problem' unless you fit in my shows buddy. A pregnant sister would be a blessing in my life, compared the shit i go through every day.

Your sister shouldnt have to be forgiven by you.. because you reallly dont have any say in what she can or cannot do.

Um... I already know that and got way past it dude.

so what's the updates about your sister?

Well, she's not getting an abortion. She's not putting it up for adoption, because she said she wants to keep her baby. So we meaning her other sisters and brother are gonna help her raise money to take care of the baby. You know work overtime on our jobs. My mom and dad will help to and my grandparents said when she goes to school they'll watch the baby. So I guess that's ok.

Good to see there is a plan. Now what about the baby's father? Any word from him?