i have just a couple questions regarding sex...my girlfriend and i have been dating for 9 months, and she says shes ready for sex. not that i'm scared, but really just wondering about some stuff. i've heard that usually girls wont orgasm the first few times, and also stuff about how rubbing certain areas helps, how does this work? any information will be greatly apreciated. also, i'm dont know any techniques with giving female oral. i know the whole deal, but i dont know anything different from moving your tongue around and stuff. is this all it takes? and would girls enjoy that more than sex? also, what would be the best position to first try?