I asked a girl I liked what she thought of me and she basically said she likes me as a person but doesnt think she knows me well enough socially 2 date yet. Up until that point i remained hopeful and thought that things might work out, However she did clearly state she had been talking to another guy and that it might depend on her status with him. I wasnt really crushed more frustrated and honestly feel sad because i dont really have much else for the summer in terms of dating. Now being the person I am and with my values, Im certainly not going to wait around hoping that her situation with this other guy falls apart so that i will step up as mr2. I dont really know if i should totally start looking else where and how i should convere with her (i plan on backing off a real lot to show what shes missing etc. and make it clear or atleast appear im looking elsewhere)I just need advice on if this will be effective or if i need other ways to get her attention without going out of my way to do so. thanks JD
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Move forward or wait? (need help)
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Well paul, you seem like a really nice guy. And maybe this girl doesn't really know what she's missing. I suggest you continue to look for someone else for a while, but still keep yourself open for her if anything were to happen. If something does happen don't be to earsty like you were stalking her and waiting. Just casually show her you'll be there for her. In this case it will seem more of a love thing instead of a body sexual thing. Good luck
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No im not gonna fight for her or anything of the sort. If she doesnt like me as #1 then im certainly not going to make her my number one even if i cant find someone, with fake away messages and everything else under the sun ill sure make it seem like i got girls after me (in fact there are a few but none of interest). It hasnt been a day so ill leave her about a week to go out of her way and say that she really likes me and it will have to be legit not that she had a fight with this other kid and wants to fallback on me. Im just not sure it seems like my telling her was the climax of the situation and im not sure how to ease back into things thats all.. man this really sucks
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Well let us know how things work out between you two. I hope it's ok.
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ditch her
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Meh, infference is ussaly the best type of policy to adopt in this instence. I was in a similar situation a few years back. she was hot on the chase, not too bad either, but then i was nice and it died. Basiclly, keep your distence, hint every now and then when you "run into" eachother about what you want. other than that, I'd say its the theory of diminishing returns.
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Hung out witha bunch of ppl today she knows about it girls and guys. prolly good and jealous so either she calls me and begs or let her go through what i went through and end up with no one. Im going in the move forward direction and not look back unless im tapped on the shoulder or pulled by the ankle thanks guys.