Been going out with my current gf for 2 yrs, one month. for the past say yr and a half i haven't been able to have sex with her b/c of some rash or somthing that has been plaguing her. she has been to the doctors and the gynos and had meds and isn't better. I know i think she should be in the gyno 24-7 until they figure it out b/c this could really be bad for her. but she goes once in a while and lets shit slide. Anyway, so basically i can't remebr the last time she wanted to even kiss me passionatly. I still love her, but i dont know, im in a cage. Im 20 almost 21, im in college, im not conceeded but i can bring home the ladies, and im sitting around with my girl who doesn't even seem to realize how ridiculous this is for me. I think i have done more than any other guy would have done already a yr and half of no sex. no she doesn't give head and basically she'll give me a hand job (which i can do myself). should i call it quits?????????????
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Is my relationship Finished???
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Just cause a female is intrested in your stuff anymore doesn't mean your relationship is over. You got to please her.
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Boy you sound like you're only in it for the sex. Show her that you love her. If you do love her you shouldn't be thinking you're wasting your time. Sex isn't the only thing you do with a gf. Have fun with her. Go to park or something.
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If she has this Rash and you say she lets things slide.. encourage her more often to go tot he Gyno and get this thing worked out.If you truely love her you'll stand it out, sex truely isn't everything.
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You've got a lot to learn about love if thats what you think this is! I think for her sake you should break up if you are going to think like this and be selfish about your needs. I hope everything works out, but you the situation just makes you seem like you only want sex. Now sex is actually a very important thing in a couple's lives together, but it's definately not everything. I know you're young, but you still think like a 17 year old when it comes to relationships it seems.
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yea i hear you. I have ppl telling me both sides, I personally feel like its an asshole thing to do, to let it ruin a relationship. I talk to her about it and she just gets depressed which i guess is ok, its a serious thing, but then she doesn't want to go casue, she doesn't have health insurance, she doesn't have time, she has soccer practice,...... But there are free clinics, and this should be one of the most important things to get your self heatlthy. I just dont see how anyone could allow themselves to be in pain for that long with somthing so important and not deal with it. I tell her this all the time, and important, i do mean the long run, like being able to have children. I know if i had somthing wrong with me anywhere, not just a sexual thing, i would get it cured. I sleep next to her almost everynight, I dont "poke" her and complain. I'm not a sex maniac, obviously this is a forum for problems so thats what im typing, but there are so many good things too. You can't honestly not feel for what the problem is. a year and a half. i dont know....( do you all really think the problem is me?) thanks for your thoughts i appreciate it.