Never had a real girlfriend. (explicit language)

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I feel really ashamed of myself. I've never had a serious girlfriend.
Once in elementary school a girl i was madly in love with actually wanted me to ask her out. The next day i found out she was just f*cking with me for a laugh. What a cold bitch.

I don't think i'm that ugly ( it's me in the picture ) and people seem to think i'm funny in real life and it's not like i have any major issues that would throw anyone off. I like this one girl and i hang around in a place i used to see her in but she doesn't go there anymore, so that's in the shitter.

What's wrong with me? People all around me are going out with girls and don't seem to have any problem with it. I can talk to some girls okay, but the most girls seem to want to have to do with me is 'jokey friend guy' or something stupid and third wheel like that.

I mean, yeah, i could land a creepy loner girlfriend or one with headgear, not that i'm superficial, it's just that i don't want to lower my standards. I want a nice girlfriend just like all my friends have but it feels like it'll never happen at all.

Is anything wrong with me?

we should condense our posts same problems here man. hell my goofy friends are getting girls that i should be having and im a way better all around person not trying to brag but its not really fair. I cant help you but im going through the same thing man.

Nah Africa I don't think there's anything wrong with you at all. How old are you btw?Depending on age a lot of times girls just aren't ready fore real relationships and end up dating certain guys simple because "they're cool". Down the road as people mature they really get to know who people are, and that's when true real relationships can blossom.Sometimes it just takes the right person for things to happen.. maybe you just haven't met her yet or maybe its she hasn't met you yet

i'm 14. me, hiding >_> I like this one girl and i reckon given the right opportunity i could ask her out but i doubt she'd wanna go beyond that.

HAHAHA your 14. Relax, you have plenty of time to meet a good girl. I mean you have 4 years of high school and then college. Besides most girls do not mature until their 20's. You will have no problem come high school so relax.

Girls mature physically earlier, but guys mature physically faster. But emotionally, guys never mature!

i appreciate your support but i attend english high school. No junior high- just 8 grades in one school.

Seriously Africa if you like this girl ask her out.. whats the worst thing she can say..no. And don't have any expectations, just go out and have fun! You'll have many relationships before you find the right one to be physical with. I honestly don't recommend you just get physical with anyone, wait until it's special, it'll mean more.

See, i don't really know how to approach the situation. When she was hanging out with my friends before i could have asked her but now i'd have to go to her when she's with all her friends. I'd probably say something dumb like 'hey Dawn ( her name ) i know you don't really know me that well, but would you go out with me?'If on the off chance that she decided to, she'd either stand me up or change her mind at the last minute. I hate to sound like i'm bitching but i just really don't know how to ask her. I sooo want to, though.also, note, this guy i can't fucking stand called Joshua is friends with all the girls ( he's gay, btw ) hates me and may badmouth me to her. Although if she's worth seeing she'd probably want to find out for herself before judging me.

also, note, this guy i can't fucking stand called Joshua is friends with all the girls ( he's gay, btw ) hates me and may badmouth me to her. Although if she's worth seeing she'd probably want to find out for herself before judging me.EXACTLY! Also, have you thought about maybe trying to catch her in the halls between classes? Often times this works best when you can get her away from her friends. And when asking her out you don't have to be so formal either.. you can simply ask her if she wanted to hang out sometime, make it sound more casual than an actual date. Like find out if there is a movie she wants to see and say something like "Hey Dawn, I was thinking about going to see and was wondering if you wanted to see it with me, I hate to go to movies alone." I dunno just trying to give ya options.Hope that helps

I know exacally how you feel except im 17 and never had a real g/f but lodsa girl mates. went to a party tonight, everyones paired up with someone! typical! but your 14, you got lodsa time yet!

HAHA and you are only 17...lol...try being 20 and still never a gf, it is even worse, but i stay ever vigilant.

In reply to: HAHA and you are only 17...lol...try being 20 and still never a gf, it is even worse, but i stay ever vigilant. You're gay, or are the ugliest fucker out there, or possibly that you live in America and don't want to fuck with a fat bitch, you live in Alabama?

wait am i getting this right. did you actually say this b/c i am about ready to go off...you must not read a lot of the threads on this forum..You go after the male genitals huh, and just read about how guys touch themselves, now not to knock against your sexuality, but where do you base these conclusions. I mean how thick is your cranium, I mean honestly. Now lets see what you did wrong, I said i was 20 and still never had a gf, and you responded with gay and ugly and Alabama...Not sure where gay and Alabama came in b/c that is just plain random. Ugly you do have bounds to say that b/c you do not know what i look like, so fair enough there. And since when does me living in America determine if i want to sleep with a larger person, and what do you have agaist the people of the US (the ones that do not agree with sticking their nose into everyones business). I mean wow, just wow.All I have to say is you are dumb, ignorant, and close minded. So try and stay out of threads that push the edges of thought, beliefs, and the mind.

*Gives high Five to Walken* Well said!!

thank you.

Its people like him that give soviet countries a bad name!

If you're only 14 it's not really a big deal. From what I've seen, most girls are rather silly and superficial at that age. Just wait a few more years for the right person to come along

Silly and superficial? where are you?Back to the poster. Don't worry about it. There is nothing wrong. Just give it sometime. Most girls don't really want to rush into a relationship with people they barely know. When I was 14 though I thought I would never get a guy and that no one liked me. But none of that was true. I have a bf now and sometimes it just takes alot of getting to know each other. While your waiting have some fun. Stop worrying about girls all the time. It'll drive you nuts! There is someone out there for everyone.

i have like the same issue, i wanted o ask a girl out but afraid all her friends would bitch about me or she'd turn me down. So i just gave up on girls and focused on school and swimming (i'm 14 too)