ok my fellow male friends...i seem to have a problem. im not new to this jacking off business...and for me its quite normal...however lately i seem to be cumming faster and faster. like 10-20 seconds...and i dont jack off everyday...and ive also read some ways to help "hold it in" but what are some long term techniques? does stopping for a while (like a month or more) help you "hold it in" better? or is it something else? please help...i dont want to be a 5 second man!!!
Try "stop and go" - when you get near, stop all stimulation; then when you've cooled down a bit, start again, and repeat the process. The idea is to train yourself to last longer.
Stopping masturbation will only make you cum quicker. I've found that the longer I abstain from masturbating or ejaculating, when I finally do cum, I cum MUCH faster. I normally cum in about 2 minutes if I don't stop, but if I go like 2 weeks or more without ejaculating, I can cum in under 10 seconds. It's like the sensitivity in my penis and prostate increases tremendously if I don't masturbate, and the "point of no return" comes on much sooner and faster than normal.