It seems like everytime my girl gives me a handjob or a blowjob, or I masturbate after I cum, my penis stays hard as ever. Is there something i'm done wrong here? I know i've heard a lot of guys would love to have that etc, but it actually kind of sucks. You then have to wait for it to go down, and sex drive is pretty much gone after cumming so its basically pointless...How do I avoid this?
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What is the deal here?
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i dont know how you can avoid this but you are one of the blessed ones to have this ability. You can just leave it till it goes down on its own or you can take a really cold shower.
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I have the same 'issue'. It takes a long while for my erection to go down after I cum. I kind of like this feature though, although it can be annoying if you just want to do a quickie and move on right after you cum, waiting for the boner to go down. And there's like no way I can force it to go down faster.
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I used to get this occasionally when I was younger but it hasn't happened so much in the past 4-5 years. I think it will probably disappear as you get older (I'm 24 now).
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My sex drive must be really strong because it stays up after I ejaculate as well. Some guys got it, some don't.
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I wish More Did :P
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Even if it does, sometimes it's too sensitive to mess with.
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nevermind then, ill wait the 20min to go around again
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Post-ejaculation sensitivity: It depends on the occasion. The thingie is a fickle organ. Don't women experience something similar with their hoo-hah?
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I dont
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You're saying that, right after the waves are done crashing on the rocks, you're ready for another turbulent sea right away? I think, as a man ages, after the tower collapses, it takes a bit longer to rebuild it (also known as refractory time).
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Yes, right after. Not with my last boyfriend, but with this one deffinatly.
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You and girthdepression must treasure your youth. By the way, that was your 666th post.
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man, i should have posted on that "something relgious that scares me" thread. i could be the devil
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Not sure there's really a way to avoid this, it's just how your body works. My boyfriend is the same way and I actually like it. Sometimes he cums fast, so gives me a chance to keep going to orgasm (Since I take forever lol) and generally he has 2 orgasms to my 1. It's pretty hot! :grin:
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i have this "problem" too. it is annoying if i juss wanna jack off real fast. ur stuck with it for a while after it. it would be good for sex though, i suppose, but i hope i grow out of it.
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How old are you now?