Major loss..

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This has nothing to do with exercising or whatever.But,please listen to me,if you don't want to beleive me,then dont.Ok so it started out like this.One day,I was with my friend at the Recreation Center.Until my friends other friend comes with his friend...Ok sounds confusing but stick with me.Well,my friends other friends,friend had this major grudge against me,awhile back he sayed I had told on something that he done that he should not have done,and I know that I DID not at all snitch on him.so then i get real angry and push him.(ok the guy who thought I snitched on him,is like..the nothing,everyone treats him like crap,hes basicaly the wuss,the stupid one...the one that everyone can beat up)ok back to the story.Then he pushes me back,and when I got in his face,he does this like 2 inch punch to my left cheek bone,(which btw I still have a bruise of),then I swung,but missed,after that we just grabbed eachother,I fell to the floor and he started swinging at my face,apparently I dont know why,I couldnt push him off...Then people came and reported to the Recreation Center workers.So we basicaly got kicked out,soon after my friend and others told us to go behind the Rec. Center.So we did,after the first fight,I had gotten tired and shaky,Well,ok this again is out of the subject but,I do Tae kwon do,and i get on the punching bag and bowflex every once in awhile,and try to eat healthy,but before i got in that fight,or any other fights,i was shaky,I had this weird tingly feeling my gut,just these scared/rushed feeling.And whenever i get in a fight,i cant control myself,i dont think of what i can do or anything,i just grab and swing and whatever i can.Well ok back to the story,I manage to kick his left leg,after that he grabs me and gets me in a head lock,I was very thirsty/tired before the fight,and as soon as he got me in it.I couldnt move,i just shut down,while he got 5 good ones straight on my head,after that i fell.Ok whoever read this whole thing thanks,i just cant get it out of my head now,I mean,i usually win my fights,but,i lost this one,and especially to the one everyone can beat up.I know what ur saying,"why didnt you tell me your friends you didnt want to fight cause you were thirsty/tired?Well at my age,now a days were called wussys and not respected at all if we back down,so i had to do it...has anyone ever felt this scared/rushed feeling,or cant control anything when ur in a real fight...cause i cant beleive my self now,btw,please dont yell at me,i just wanted to share it,because i felt so bad...and id really like some positive replys,or maybe some tips,cause that day was horrible for me.

Proper puncuation would have helped, along with spelling, and sentace structure. I couldnt get past the first sentance.

I think you need to look into other ways to channel your anger other than fighting.

> spelling, and sentace structure

That's pretty funny.

youdonotseeme, Amanda is right. You need to use your brain and try to figure out some alternative to fighting. What if you collected yourself, started pummeling him, then he swung back, and you lost your front teeth? What if you whacked him in the head, sent him to the hospital, and got charged with assault?

There has to be another way.

im sorry,id love to stop,but now days,fighting is the sport...not in the good way,im just trying to explain it out,im sorry java addict,i dont have good punctuation,im like 13-14,well i guess its the popular thing to tell the truth,and since i got in about 2-3 fights,im expected to fight more,if i stop,ill be the reject,the outkast,and i would get no respect at all,and i would be picked on ,i have to,even if i dont like it,i dont start them,just incase you were wondering.btw,please people who have experienced fighting,help me.oh and amanda,im not very angerful,but i can much abuse from my brother,not the normal sibling rivalry,its horrible,and my family is having problems with money,business,etc.i really want to stop this fighting,im really peaceful if you get to know me,but i cant.

Basically, you're asking people to help you figure out how to assault another person, which is a felony.

Hey man i kind of go through the same shit, for one thing if you want to fight better join a boxing league or some shit, and yah alot of my friends have been in 10-25 fights, one even has been in over 75 which is no joke. there fighting all the time, and me ive been in about 3 fights and in everyone i kicked the living shit outta the guys. So people know i can fight but still everyonce in a while my friends will give me shit about not fighting alot and i could care less, i pretty much dont like fighting all that much to begin with. But sometimes its what you gotta do. And for the nervous thingy, if your thirsty and shit get a drink and take a 5 min break and gather your thoughts before the fight and get pumped up. And its normal to be nervous even if you know u can kick the kids ass. Its happened to me before.

a 14 yearold kid fighting is a felony?? if so lol im a felon

If someone you kick the living shit out of (or their parent) decides to press charges, and you're not found "not guilty", you are a felon. You will then likely spend time incarcerated in a youth facility. It's your call.

ok..remember i told you he totally kicked my ass,hes calling me out again,and my best friend wants me to fight him,im real nervous and i dont know what to do.

I am 13 and have dylexia and I can use better grammar and spelling.On topic: "The hurts that you survive from make you stronger."

okay let me tell you. If you fight him you are a retard, and you are sending yourself down a road that you obviosuly have no clue where it ends up. So grow up you idiot and stop fighting. If you cannot back down and swallow your goddamn pride then you deserve to be in a coma because you are not making this world any better by fighting people.

Fighting could help people, if this guy is just starting to pick fights with people someone should keep him in line.

but there are healthier ways to release anger, tension, and stress...fighting just has so many negative results. I would suggest another way of releasing what you have built up.

They came to my door,and I made up an excuse that i couldnt come out,they called me wussy and fag and left.They're coming tommorow,and im sure if I dont fight that fag,that they might screw up my house,like egging or breaking windows.I really dont want the cops involved in this either.My brother has lots of friends I know can kick theyre asses for me,but they would pick on me alot at school,or they would call theyre brothers...im stuck,all I can think of right now is,Fight him with a risk of serious injurys,lose or win.Or back down,be picked on for the rest of my school years,and not be respected by anyone...

I really dont want the cops involved in this> all I can think of right now is,Fight him with a risk of serious injurysSo will someone call the cops if you wind up in the hospital? You think maybe the doctors and nurses might be curious about your injuries? And WHAT ABOUT YOUR PARENTS? Are they completely clueless?

Yes,my parents do know about this.They try to stop it,but I stop them,I dont want them involved either,so I guess I have to take the risks and get this over with.Anyways thanks for helping...