...I'm drunk. Why the hell is that. Sober I visualize what I'll say but never take the oppurtunity, drunk I'll stumble up reeking of cheap rum and make casual conversation that lasts a couple minutes if they're sober, maybe a couple hours if they're drunk too.On vacation I tried this every night, twice I made it to hotel rooms. One time doesn't count though because the girls were from Japan and didn't speak English. The other time I was with one girl, who left me for some asshole, the girl my friend was with though all of the sudden jumps on me and starts making out when he left the room, but then she threw up and nothing went further.I don't get what the hell I'm doing wrong. How can I hold a girls interest I just don't feel that I have anything to offer. Another time I actually paid for two whores to get into a club where they left me for a pair of jackoffs from Italy. Even if I'm lucky enough to walk with some girl, I just don't know what to do next, do I start to put my arm around her and she'll get freaked out or is it a right time? Once it worked, another time it didn't and 10 minutes later the girl starts talking about her "boyfriend"...bitch. So let's say I see a hot girl. what the hell do I do? I'm not on vacation anymore so I can't be drunk all the time. I'm just 19 and it's pathetic that I haven't gotten laid, it's not like I deserve this, most of the guys who have girls are assholes.
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I can only talk to girls when...
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So it sounds to me you just want to talk to the girl to get laid. Well then. My advice is try to strike up conversation. Stop getting drunk because it's probably not that "attractive". And try being a gentleman once in a while. That is only if there are a few girls left on this planet who still want one. I know I do.
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wow you've made some...uhm progress.... since you've last been on here, i think that your trying to hard dont force things they'll happen naturally.
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I'm not just trying to get laid, I realized it won't just happen overnight, I'm at the point where most 14 year olds are far past, I mean for Christ's sake the farthest I'm gotten is grabbing an underage girls titty through her tube top.
Like I said, I don't plan to get drunk and meet girls. When you're on vacation it's cool, when you're not you look like an alcoholic. So I start school sometime, I don't know when, let's say I just pass some hot girl in the hallway, I have no idea where to start and sometimes I fear they interpret it weird or something.
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You did what to an underaged girl? How underaged?!and, you stop and say hi, ask what classes she's taking what her major is, if she likes it. blah blah blah
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i hear ya white-lines. i try to get talking over some common ground, or if id dont know what that is i'll start to perhaps email and ask about them and how they are. although there's only a couple of girls i could acctually talk to. im to shy! im the kind of guy who still belives in chivalry! mind u ive still not had a girl
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14 years old and getting drunk huh? Sick world we live in... very sick world.Now I'm just gonna hit a nerve right now. Why is it that it has to be a "hott" girl why can't it be an average looking girl? What is hott? All people should be considered "hott" because then your putting down those who aren't appealing in your eyes. Looks aren't everything. She could be someone really gorgeous on the outside and nasty and rude on the inside, but yet you still want her number. If there is a girl who is sweet but not as attractive as the other, she won't get talked to because the other is "hotter"? I just thinks that's wrong. I'm only saying this because I've seen it happen to so many people and it makes me sick. And...how old was the "underaged" girl who's tits you grabbed. Because seriously that's the most unethical thing you could ever do. I grabbed her tits... ya. I'm not trying to pick on you or anything but come on dude. Stop trying to mess around with some girls and have fun in life. Once again... talk to her casual. Make EYE contact not boob contact. Don't immediately ask for her info because she'll think you're a stalker lol.
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He's not 14. He was talking about his own level of social development.All on May 7th...He said: "anyways, i look over at hot girls i see while driving and try to get their attention and stuff, and i only help out the hot girls at work too so im trying"He concedes that he'll probably have to settle for a non-hot chick; "someone in the high-mids area".But on the same day he had figured out the problem: "women just love guys who treat them like shit."This is an old discussion.
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hes 19 not 14.
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Oh ok thanks steve. Nevermind.
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but he is still dumb...maybe not a hot girl but in the mid highs....what an idiot...just look for someone you can love.
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Calm down, she told me she was 18 but I only said underaged because the school group she was with in the hotel room were all aged 16 and 17. I don't care, age of consent in Hawaii is like 14 or something I just don't go that young.
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I was on vacation, the girls were looking for the same thing I was, a one-night stand with someone they'd never see or hear from again. I wasn't just after sex though, if I was I failed anyways but I just wanted to meet some girls, vacation was only 3 weeks, the rest of my life is forever so I figured it would be good practice.
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which is fine, i dont see anything wrong with what you did during vaca, anyways, just try to be very natural with girls make little subtle jokes, help a girl out if possible. Dont force anything.
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A school group? Aged 16/17 going to Hawaii? I think I may have known one of them!!!!!
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theyre destination wasnt hawaii, they were there for one day or something coming back from some other country.
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why do the jokes have to be subtle?
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Did you notice how old this thread is?
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yeh but i feel as i gotta post aint dat good. yeh its pretty old
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Its not just old, its dead. The guy you just replied to hasn't posted in over a month. You are just wasting space bringing these threads back to the top of the list for no reason. This isn't like other forums that you may visit, threads usually finish within a few days, it is rare to find one that goes on for more than a month. And this is definately not one of them.