So my dad heard us...

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Kids have sex faggot, shut the fuck up because im not the only kid on here interested in it but i seem to be the only one being bashed. And if you think your gonna talk to me that way copme down to west haven connecticut ill show you what respect is fucking about.

They guantlet has been tbrown down. There should be a forum where people can challenge each other to duels, but where no actual duel will ever come to pass.

Nothing exposes an empty head quicker than an open mouth. You are something for a dad to be proud of.

Can you be serious? I can easilly be the wittiest person in my town. But you instantly bash me without knowing me nor my girlfriend. A direct insult is pretty fucked up. Seriosly. Look around on this board and you will see shit like "L0l Well me and my Gf i put it in Her mouf is she gon have a babie, oh and im a 12 yr old boy" Like really and im getting bashed over here by people who don't know me. I could have sworn this was a help site, unfortunately there is only a handful of serious adults on it and a lot more assholes who come on just to yell and try to preach to people. Well i have no time for your bullshit respect nonsense. Only way you could ever try to tell me something about respect or how to live is if you did know me, and you don't, none of you do. But not all of you were scum bags just this fuck cannon here who thinks he can talk about my girlfriend being a bimbo, WOW respect huh. Fuck you kid give up on life.

If we don't know you, we have to go by what you tell us. The reaction is toward the virtual person you've constructed through your posts, not you as a real person. Either we're all a bunch of assholes, or there are things that you post that make people think that something is wrong here. Any way you slice it, someone your age having noisy sex with overnight guests, then your reaction to your father when he catches you, falls outside of the normal range. Or do you think pretty much everyone does it, and your father is just being an asshole too?What would you like to hear? You seem to know what you want to do. No one is going to tell you to run away from home or shoot your parents. What would you tell someone who posted what you posted?

We didnt have sex. I didnt realize fingering your girlfriend needs to wait till marriage. Like come on im a sophmore in highschool let me do things i want to do. But my dads not an asshole all i wanted to know is how i could explain to him i didnt have sex with her, i just ended up getting a slap in the face and a go to your room you disobedeant child from you people. I dont need to be taught whats right respect wise because my beliefs are completely different from most of yours im not a god follower i dont see a reason to be respectful and not do things with my girlfriend i just wanted advice but i guess even ADVICE FORUMS can only yell at you for being a disrespectful child and not respecting your completely in control parents who are the gods of your life until your 18. NO THANKS.

you're 15.. you shouldnt be having sex.. or fooling around..especially where your parents can hear you.. are you mental!?

In reply to: I dont need to be taught whats right respect wise because my beliefs are completely different from most of yours im not a god follower i dont see a reason to be respectful and not do things with my girlfriend i just wanted advice but i guess even ADVICE FORUMS Yet you seem to want to command respect from us. And this has nothing to do with your religious preferences. Respect is something that is earned. Usually by giving first. If you don't respect the advice we give you on the boards, and then don't respect your parents...What makes you think your dad should give you the curtousy or respect of allowing you to try to reason? Wouldn't you wanting respect from him, be hypocritical of you?

In reply to: you're 15.. you shouldnt be having sex.. or fooling around.. Having sex? definately not, but just "fooling around" I don't think we have to be that strict.

in your parents house when they can hear u!? no thats not okay

well not when they can hear you, i thought you were saying, no fooling around. Period.

The forum has limits. For instance, having sex with animals and small children is frowned upon. And small children having sex with animals is right out. I'm not saying your situation compares to that, but a lot of people think you're over the line. You may disagree. Such is life. This isn't the first time it will happen.I don't know how you can convince your father to believe you. Having a girl for an overnighter when you thought your parents would be out is a bit devious, so the trust between you was already strained. Considering how you feel toward him, why does it matter? So you can get his approval next time she spends the night?If you find the answer on another forum, please let us know what it is.I'm not sure when the definition of sex became "intercourse", but messing around with someone else's genitals is sex.

im the only one out of all my friends who is a virgin i think its safe to say im not going over the limit of my age. i mean when a 12 year old comes on here saying he had sex you are all ok with it. please explain. keep in mind i didnt have sex.

Hey dude, just want to let you know there's a difference between a child and an adult. And the child is always warned for having sex at a young age. Go look those posts over.

Even after my last post, which you apparently haven't read, you keep saying you didn't have "sex", when you mean that you didn't have "intercourse". Your artful use of the word "sex" does not build trust.> when a 12 year old comes on here saying he had sex you are all ok with itI don't know what forum your reading. Could you point out the post(s) in question? Or do you think you're being randomly persecuted because your number came up?I realize you just want to do what you want to do, and you think your father is a jerk. I ask you again: Do you think that a lot of parents would think it's OK if their 15-year-old kid had an overnight guest with whom they're sexually fooling around? Or do you think it would be wierd if the parents didn't think it was fine?I still don't understand why you think it's important that your father believed when you told him you weren't having intercourse. If you told him you weren't having sex, I can understand why he thought you were lying. Do you care so he'll give you the green lighe next time you want to invite here over for the night?

I think JoeXpolloi is being treated rather harshly on this thread for a bit of manual stimulation of his girlfriend.

I do recommend, though, Joe, that you don't use your parent's house, considering she is so loud.

I do recommend, though, Joe, that you don't use your parent's house, considering she is so loud. Yes, that is the issue. But I'm not sure whether he's concerned that his father believe that he didn't have intercourse because he actually does care what his father thinks, or because he doesn't want his father to stand in the way of future overnighters.

Since you are wondering, the reason why i want him to understand we didnt have intercourse is because i just want him to have an ok concious and not to be bothered by it.

You mean you want you to have an OK conscience. Or you really do care what he thinks. Since he didn't do anything, he has no conscience issue.

The father could have a bad conscience that he allowed a girl to get, er, penetrated in his own house, a demesne in which he feels responsibility. One can be culpable for inaction as well as action.In reply to:But I'm not sure whether he's concerned that his father believe that he didn't have intercourse . . .It gladdens my heart to see such appropriate use of the subjunctive!