evrytime i try to achieve an orgasm throu anal play i always fail. I stick my fingers up their , ive tried a dildo , but everytime i just eventually get bored and stop. Does anyone no how t reach an orgasm through anal plaY? tell me how.
patience and persistance are the keys. It's fairly uncommon in general. A vibrator is better than a plain dildo.
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You have to really really really want it.
I keed. I've come very close. I can't say I ever get bored while doing it though. Are the sensations good when you do it? How long before you get bored and stop?
Well, it depends on so many things. You have to be REAL horny, being sexed up. And you need to stimulate the right area. Some people like the whole rectum being stimulated with a dildo or vibrator. Some like to massage the prostate. Some like to stimulate just the anus. All of them are erogen zones, and what you prefer, what's best for you is different from person to person. Only way to find out, is to try it out .
When you know what works best for you, use that area as much as possible, stimulate as much as possible without the pleasure turning to pain. You can stimulate too much, if you for example put something too big up there.
When you've done this right found your limit, and found out what works best for you, you get what you can from your ass. Then that's it. If it's not enough to achieve orgasm, you have to masturbate the regular way with your hand and penis. Then your orgasm will, without doubt,be heighned. Then that is what you can max. get from your ass. If you still want to use that sexual area from there on, is up to you.
Actually, I've heard of VERY few who could achieve an orgasm through that area. I know some women can from the rectum and anus, and the same with some men. Some men can get an orgasm from their prostate, then again not all. It depends on how sensitive you are.
But remember, be horny, take your time, use lots of lube and take it easy with that area. VERY sensitive area.
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