Feeling sick after sex?

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Last two times my BF and I had sex he's said he felt sick to his stomach after he orgasmed. Only info I can really give on why this might be is that the last two times we've had sex it has been very intense/passionate and lasted a good 2 hours (No intercourse, just a lot of kissing, grinding and forplay). Could it be he's just getting too worked up? Has anyone else experienced this??

I have done the good BF duty and I cuddle and rub his tummy until he feels better. I am just curious on why this could be happening?

There's so much that goes on with sex, physically and emotionally. It's quite possible, he's just a little overwhelmed and worn out by the end of it. Some people don't take well to extended periods of raised body temp, either, and can feel quite ill after a while.

It's funny you made a topic about this, because I too feel sick (like I want to throwup sick) after sex. I just figured it was all the bendy positons I was in at the time.

ive felt ill after sex on more than one occasion. it could be a physical thing or maybe an emotional issue. a few times i have done something sexual that i immediately regretted, like having sex with an ex-girlfriend after our break up when i tried to stay away, but the sex beckoned me back, that made me sick a few times. there have been other times after good sex or oral sex where its been difficult to stand or walk. and i think it made me a little sick too. probably because i got so into it that it made my body weak! maybe your lover has fatigue issues.

Another possiblity is the exhaustion that comes with it. If you haven't had much physical activity in a while and you start working out again you will have that same sickness. There's so much physical activity going on during sex that it may be a side effect just the same. The better in shape one is the less likely you'll probably get sick.

some guys just don't do it right. that actually goes for me too somtimes. when u have crazy sex (i.e.: having sex in a bunch of different positions, and doing it hard, like rough sex) you get overworked. i'm in decent shape, go to the gym about 3 times a week i do cardio and everything but i still get worked up. i've had times where i've had to stop altogether in the middle of sex and stand in the way of the a/c to get cooled off. so becarful of overheating during hot sex, it's called heat exhaustion i beleive, and it's a bad/dangerous thing.

Yes, I have experienced this before. it sems to occur right after I have had a very explosive orgasm and my body is somewhat overheated.

Thanks everyone for your replies.

My BF is in awesome shape, he works outside over 8 hours a day and drinks between 2-3 gallons of water a day. He said he hasn't experienced feeling sick after sex for alittle while now. I am still putting my money down that it was just too intense for his body.

Again thanks for all the posts :grin:

2-3 gallons of water a dayWow. Now that is good hydration.

Yuppers. He's a surveyor, so he's outside in the sun for 8 hours ( or more). So he uses a lot of fluids from sweating.. also a reason why he also has to pee every 5 minutes it seems lol.

It's not healthy to overdo it. A lot of marathoners (the slower ones) overhydrate, which dilutes their electrolytes, which causes problems. No matter what you're doing, if you're peeing every few minutes all day long, then you're drinking too much (give or take the effect of kidney problems or diabetes).

I agree with ya there.. but the boy is gonna do what he wants to do LoL.

This sounds like another case of Blue balls! @.@! I think it's time there was a sticky about it xD!

Blue balls occurs when one basically reaches the point before orgasm, then doesn't orgasm. So there is a bit of pain that can be involved. Probably do you 2 better to look into mutual masturbation if you haven't yet had sex. It can be foreplay + satisfaction =p

actually i think more about blue balls applying when a girl sucks ur dick hard, gets u close (either w/ mouth, hand, or both) and then lets off. and goes and sits on the couch and turns on TV and does not allow u to do urself nor does she do anything more. now THAT'S blue balls

No THAT should be against the law. It's just mean >=O! I'd be holding back anger... ::walks off fuming thinking about it::

haha, true it should be! tho my wife's never done that completly. she's done a small version, but she only stays away for a few mins. cuz i just start stroking and tell her "i'll make myself go if i must..." so she comes to her senses and usually i bang her from there

Actually has nothing to do with blue balls. Everytime we have sex or whatever we always get off. It's after the orgasm that he feels sick to his stomach. It hasn't happened in awhile so hoping it was just a "phase" type thing. But I still find it odd and wish I knew what caused it.