Toilet?

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Ok not sure if this is supposed to be in this part of forum but does anyone else have a problem weeing at a urinal when other people around, or when your in toilet and you know people can hear? I just cant wee. its weird, i have heard something on this b4, so does anyone know what it is and why?

That is very common.

but what is it that causes this?

Your brain.

The same thing that makes some guys clam up when they try to talk to a girl.

oh right. thats wierd. still least i cant do anything about it

I rarely get "stage fright" when going to the bathroom. I figure what's the point.. everyone that's in the bathroom is there for the same reason. Best advice I can give is not think about it so much.

Easier said than done I understand :smile:

I used to have "stage fright" when someone else was in the bathroom when I peed. Now I don't care anymore.

Yup. Shy bladder effects me, too. If you just don't think about any of the other people in the bathroom and concentrate on just relaxing and letting it flow, it's no problem. You might have to do a little forcing along with the relaxing, but over time it becomes easier and easier. Hey, I found an old website. Apparently, paruresis is the correct term for it. http://www.paruresis.org/

One thing some people recommend is working out a difficult bit of mental arithmetic in your head - it gives your brain something different to focus on.

But the thing is im not shy about my body or nething, thats why i dont get it.

I never have a problem peeing in public except at this one upscale theatre downtown. The urinals are so close together that you almost rub sholders with the guy standing next to you. We are so close that I get the feeling that if I shake my penis to get the last few drops off I might as well be shaking his. Just an uncomfortable feeling.

Don't suggest using the stalls. They are always full.

Everyone is different but most guys go into a bathroom to have a leek.  There are some guys however, that go into the bathroom to have a peek.Bottom line:  be proud of what your momma gave you.  Just do your thing.   

But the thing is im not shy about my body or nething, thats why i dont get it.Peeing is probably the most personal thing you do in public. You don't poop, masturbate, or have sex in front of others, I presume. You have found your shyness threshold. It's just a psychological thing, and can change.

--"Peeing is probably the most personal thing you do in public. You don't poop, masturbate, or have sex in front of others, I presume. You have found your shyness threshold. It's just a psychological thing, and can change. "--Good Point thanks