Hey guys(and possibly gals) I just wanted an outside opinion. I'm 16, and everytime I masterbate, instead of "shooting" like one would expect, my cum just kinda dribbles out, like a hose spigget set on very low. I've been masterbating since I was 8(early start, I know), and have been thinking that I could have started to soon, and caused some kinda of internal damage.Also, I wanted to know if girls care about the "distance of the shot" or if that even matters.
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Can't really "shoot"
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It's perfectly normal not to shoot. Usually, the longer you masturbate, the stronger the ejaculation will be. For me, a 5 minutes quickie will simply dribble, but 2 hours of edging can make me shoot at between 3 and 5 feet usually. You started masturbating very early, but you still seem to have a long way to go in terms of knowing your limits and possibilities. Experimenting is the key.As for girls, I guess it depends on who you're asking. Some probably get turned on by seeing a guy shooting semen, while others probably don't care or even find it disgusting. Human sexuality is so vast and diverse, never assume that something is universal for an entire group.
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Personally i like to see it dribble out
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Yes, it doesn't really matter. This can also change in a few years. Sometimes I shoot, sometimes I dribble.If I have held back ("stop & go") for a while to be able to go for a longer time, I usually shoot more.I think a good way to shoot is to not try to push it out yourself at the point of orgasm, but instead try to just let the feeling come as long as possible and then some, while you keep trying to not start the contractions yourself (i.e. by trying to not use your PC muscles to be precise). If you do it for long enough, finally your body has to push it out, and then I've found it's likely to shoot. That's just something I've noticed anyway as for me. This needs some muscle and orgasm control though, but I think that can be trained somewhat.
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Hey Cub!First off…. Cubs Rock!Anyway…You are very normal…Every guys shoots and dribbles. It depends on how sexually aroused you are. There can a big difference in how you cum between when you’re masturbating and when you are having actual sex. There is really nothing wrong with guys that dribble. If every guy’s cum took air every time he came who would we watch in porn? Dude, just keep doing what you’re doing and enjoy it. Don’t always compare yourself to what the other guys say they are doing because most times you’ll find out that the guys who brags about how much he cum and how far it shoots is just a normal everyday dribbler like you and I and is insecure about it so always makes a point to brag about what he can do so he can convince himself he’s a stud!As for women, speaking only from my experience with them, I have found out that the girls who really like having the guys shoot their cum all over their face and into their eyes and up their nose are mostly in porn. The women I know would demand a little more respect from me rather than me just shooting a huge wad of cum all over their face.Some woman really get into sucking cock, but I doubt they all like having it shot into their eye or up their nose, especially if you’re a big volume shooter. I would think they would be glad you’re a dribbler then…
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That's funny, because last week I actually did this. I've become so used to using my PC muscle while masturbating for so many years that it felt really weird to actually force myself not to use it for once. And it really feels different too. It actually takes me longer to reach orgasm, as stimulation doesn't feel as strong when I'm not clenching my PC muscle. But when it does, the final rush before actually achieving climax feels much more stronger, and it reminds me of the increasing burning sensation I once felt that one time where I was able to suck myself to orgasm as a teen.Ah, just goes to show that you always have something to learn with it comes to sex
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geez and I complain that my cum comes out like a pressured hose ! oh and where the hell is your PC muscle. if I can stop myself from cumming early, and what you say. that sounds wonderful!I WANT TO KNOWWWWW
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The PC muscle is the muscle you squeeze when you're trying *not* to pee, and a good exercice to strengthen it is too start pissing and then stop halfway, holding down until the urge to pee goes away; then repeat a few time. I actually did this when trying to achieve multiple male orgasms, but I found out that my PC muscle was already strong enough without it.
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Okay S-Guy....OUCH!!I tried to stop mid-stream of a full piss and got a huge charlie horse feeling behind my nutbag. (OUCH!!!) That thing was pretty painful but It stopped the flow. It took several seconds for the charlie horse to subside, but once it did, I could finish taking a leak... Did I do it right or wrong?
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Well, it's pretty difficult at first, but painful!? Maybe it's because you're not used to using that muscle that much, so trying to stop piss mid-stream put more stress on it than you're used too. But yeah, you did it right. If you want a stronger PC muscle, you should do this often, like very time you have a pee. At first I found it difficult (although not as much as I expected) but now I can do it with little difficulty.
