just wondering if you think its possible for a guy and girl (around 20 years old) to suddenly become good friends, very quickly? but only friends?
for more context, if you can be botherd reading (thanks ) i work at kmart with lots of young people. some girl apparntly liked me yonks ago, but was too shy to even talk to me, nothing happened.
5-6 months later, she got my msn contact, started talking to me heaps, and within a week, she's messaging me every day (phone and msn) and i'm seeing her a bit outside of work too.
now anyone would think "duh... she likes u..." but whenever we are together in real life, she totallly plays down anything and everything. we get along really well but it seems its just as friends. i've wanted to make a move etc on her, but when we're together i feel like it'd be totally unwanted. i mean the other day i just tried sitting on her lap and got pushed off rather quickly lol..? oh well
is it possible that a girl and guy just start talking to each other constantly every day, and seeing each other every 2nd day, but only be interested as friends??
Sudden friends? or more than that? opinions anyone
Maybe she just acts more courageous on stuff like msn, and in real life she is more shy and really does like you.
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I agre with GODZILLA. i'm like that. i seem like reallyopen (sometimes) on msn but face to face u wouldn;t get 2 words out of me. haha. Ireally mean it. if u ask me something that i can answer wiht a yes or no i'll just nod my head yes or no.. if some one asks something i have to answer i make it as short and to the point as i can. haha diver and me talkedand i was like never saying a word. i'd just tap on my desk. it took a long while b4 i could talk. hahaha he'd be talkign and i'd be typing. then he stopped reading the text :scream_cat:
but ... the more i get used to some one the more i talk and open up. so like GODZILLA said she could just be less shy on msn than face to face.
i have only asked 1girl out cuz of beign shy. and that was cuz my brother pressure me to grow balls and ask her.. my other gf's asked me... if they hadn;t been outgoing and not shy then ..well would have never dated them.
thanks for the advice ppl
i've just found out (not from her) that she's not looking for a relationship wiht anyone, and gets bored of guys real quickly cause she sees them too often when dating.
sounds to me like she has some issues... think i won't be bothering with any effort in this one... if something happens it happens but i doubt it