What do i do ...

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hey ...its still xxtoriexx i just have new area!! ok well just when we thought it was bad it gets worse mi bf asked me to go to his house and i went we were sitting on his bed talking and his mate showed up and i mean i dont mind or nething .. so the conversation stopped and his friend came up to his room.... we watched this new movie and had a pizza which i didnt realli eat half way through he got up and sed he neded the toilet so he went downstairs so it was just me n his mate the guy went to the loo and called up to see if we wanted a drink i asked for hot choc as it always tastes good i was just sat on his bed and his mate grabbed me and kissed me i pulled away and ran down stairs my bf asked me like y u come down n i couldnt tell him y i felt bad and i eventuli told him i thought u mite need help carryin the drinks he believed and thanked me.. wen we went upstairs his freind kept annoying me tryin to get my attention wen he left mi bf told me like its so good ur frends
o sorri its so long but yeh i desperatly need help!!

Umm Im not trying to be rude, but would you mind editing the post, cause I was kinda getting sick of trying to figure out what you were saying due to the fact that there was so many errors in your spelling and sentence structures. I mean I read half way through it, but by the time I got to that point I was like ok too much work and just finished reading whatever I could read, in turn never really figuring out what your problem was. For all I know you were having a problem with the fact that your bf and his friend wanted to sandwich you, your bf came out of the closet and said he was marrying his mate that he had over, etc. lol But really, yea, if you could edit your post that would be great. Id love to help. Cheers

I think you should tell your bf what his mate did.

post 1ive been goin out with this guy for 5 weeks now almost 6 and i love him a lot.... he has had girlfrinds in the past but never got beyond a kiss... i go out with him twice a week and the other day i tried to kiss him but it ended up as a hug and "im sorry i dont wanna screw up" line (which really hurt me) so i left it ther since then i feel like such a bitch and i felt like i dont know like what is hapening becos he wont even go for a plane kiss!!! is it me or what can i do?? i never had this problem with other guys i dated they always made the move !! XxXTorieXxXpost 2hey ...its still xxtoriexx i just have new area!! ok well just when we thought it was bad it gets worse mi b/f asked me to go to his house and i went we were sitting on his bed talking and his mate showed up and i mean i dont mind or nething .. his friend came up to his room.... and we decidedd to watch this new movie his friend called in and so we had a pizza ( i wasnt that hungry so i didnt realli eat any)....about half way through the film mi b/f got up and sed he neded the toilet so he went downstairs (so it was just me n his mate in his room) mi bf went to the loo and called up to see if we wanted a drink.. i asked for hot choc as it always tastes good wen he makes it... i was with his friend just sat on his bed his mate suddnely grabbed me and kissed me i pulled away and ran down stairs to my bf mi bf then asked me like y i came down stairs ...i couldnt tell him the real reason as i felt really bad ... i eventuali told him i thought he mite need help carryin the drinks.. thank god he believed and thanked me.. wen we went upstairs his freind kept annoying me tryin to get my attention wen his freind left mi b/f told me like "its so good ur frends with...." (...=his friend) i cudda cried !! but instead i just nodded it followed with a hug and thn i had to go as it was getting late !!o sorri its so long but yeh i desperatly need all the help i cna get !!hope this is better than befor !!

ok so you need to tell somebody at least. because this time it may have been a kiss but, next time it could be rape.

i told my friend she sounded shocked
she decided i shud tell mi bf ..............but he is so close with his mate and they have been friends for a long time i dont want him to lose his closest friend... but i hate to lie with him!!

a friend that does that to your gf isn't a friend at all.

i agree but what do isay" o u know ur best mate forcefully kissd me the other day!!"sounds rather harshand will he beleive me??

just say hey your fucking friend just tried to rape my lips:p lol j/k um...no you just need to say hey your friend tried kissing me when you went to go get a drink for us. and then tell him how you tried to stop it. just tell him the truth that's all that needs to be said. and how old are you?

me im fiteen n his frend is 17 mi bf is just 16but wher i am sposd to bring it up in convo.... i dnt even wanna talk to him bcos wen he called me today he knew summat was wrong!! n i care about him a lot o ne ideas about post 1

listen screw his feelings he needs to know. i mean who needs enemies with friends like that?

mmmmmm i know ur rite!!! its not easy how i tell him right it isnt realli the best situation ... however ther is a trip to nz him his mate myself and a few others r going on do u rekon i cud spoil it by telling him ?

if he likes no it won't. and especially if his friend is coming along you really need to tell him then. and there is no easy way of telling him so just bust it out there.

yes his friend is going and im a bit concerned as its a camping trip ps do u have any ideas about post 1 err u r rite i shud tell him... i will teell him

not only do you post the same thing in different places but PLEASE speak in proper words, for example is typing realli - easier than typing really, I think not.............sigh

ok sorry and well someone said to make a new thread sorri to cause any inconvenience and err do you have some advice for me ..o and sorry for the typing

I wasn't being nippy hon, its just it makes it hard to read the post, have a consideration for us old folks on here LOL As for what i would do, well for a start honesty is THE most important thing in any relationship, so yeah i would tell him what happened..........i don't see why it should ruin his trip, you will be there............as for whether he beleive you or not, well if he doesn't I would have to wonder if I would be with someone who didn't beleive me, i mean why would you make something like that up! Plus, personally, i would be feeling VERY on edge and awkward being around 'the friend' and he might pick up on that and wonder whats wrong...............plus he might be annoyed if you don't tell him and he finds out, i mean what would he think the reason for not telling him would be, cos you liked it?????

ok thanx i really want to tell him but i am really scared of his reactions he is not a calm headed sort of person ....and is is not easy to say something like that to someone...i mean as i said before like how am i sposed to say something like that... i am also apprehensive of his friend ... due to this trip i dont want to be the one causing everyones trip to be ruined ... i wish i wasnt in this situation :'( and yes i think ur rite i didnt enjoy it and i pushed his friend off i just dont know if he will se it that way !!!

there were aboslutely no periods. It was just a big run on. My english teacher would come after you lolBut to help you with your problem I think you should tell your bf what happened. Seriously, you should have just slapped the guy the moment he did it. But just tell someone so it doesn't get out of hand.

ok an update today i met my boyfends frend and he asked me y i pushed him away becos i was apparently "well up for it" mmm i told him to get lost and he grabbed my arms and tried to hug me i pulled him away and ran up the stairs with him in pursuit i got to the top and kept runnin i was almost in tears ....mi bf showed up out of no where i just ran straight in to him he grabbed me and asked me what was wrong his friend came up saying vicki im sorry come on forgot it....my bf was pretty curious and decided to walk with me telling his frend we needed to talk... we sat on the benches and began to talk ... being a girl i cried and told him wat hapened...... he sed he was sorry that i had to go through that and gave me the sweetest hug and as he left he smiled sweetly and walked away.........i saw him later on he was with this odd boy and his friend was alone.....i tried avoiding him but it didnt work.. the guy tried to show me up infront of a lot of mi mates and wouldnt let me pass mwah i love my best frend hes a guy and told the jerk to "piss off" and stop harassing me the guy said "well if she wasnt such a whore and stopped playing wit all the guys he would " i walked (ran) away and after i left apparently my best frend hit him.... ok now back to my bf i tried to text him n he didnt reply so i called and he put down the phone ........... so wen i though i had an improvement its got worse ...!!!o add to this i am feeling pretty shit becos i dont know wat to do maybe i shudnt have said something its like Titanic !! sinking!!