Thanks man. Um, we are not currently in a relationship and i want to add that she has only had sex a few other times wiht one guy, but he was like 8 in. So I'm still feeling a bit insecure. By the way, my friends are the one that are trying really hard to hook me up with this chick. They are on a mission to get me laid. Though I am genuinely interested in her... I don't know. What are your opinions on teh situation?
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Hey Guys(girls)
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I think your life and your relationships should be run by you, not your friends.Oh, and thanks for becoming an A2A poster.
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(im a girl by the way :P I swear so many people get that wrong)Anyways, you fifteen. there is a big presure especially on guys to be 'cool' to not be virgins, but there are so many risks are problems with that to begin with, and your first time wont be that great. You'll be nervous, expecting something to go wrong. It will be awkward (going by my experiances, my boyfriends, and friends girls and guys alike) I HIGHLY doubt he 8in, size has never made any difference to me cause the larger sizes tend to...well, i dont like hte larger ones to begin with. If your friends are freaking out about getting you laid, and you feel uncomfortable about it then just ignore them. Are any of them seriously non-virgins or, having they lied about it, or are they virgins? And its very normal to feel insecure, but its your first time so i would except it wont be that great. a lot of fumbling around.And with the girl thing, most girls dont just sleep with a guy cause they're going out with him. Only the tramps, and the tramps or the ones that carry stuff. Even at 15.
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Thanks much JavaAddict much appreciated help from the opposite sex there. All your advice has been very helpful, but to reply tosome of teh things stated on your post, the guy was indeed 8 in. or at least has a huge... tallywhacker, and very few of my friends are still virgins, however most of my friends are juniors and seniors in high school, aside from these things, you both have helped quite a bit, though I'm still not sure what I will end up deciding, I stil have to figure out what I really want. (as a side note, though I act like I don't care, I am a super insecure guy that cares the world about what my friends think of me, even though my virginity shouldnot be an issue, it still matters a lot in my mind.) WHEW!!
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I gotcha, but i can garentee you that everyone is always so worried about what other people think of them, they never really judge the other like cause they're worried about the same things (did that make sense? lol) What ever you choose, make sure its what you reall really think is right.
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I get what your trying/are saying, and once again, the help is much appreciated. I have yet to see what I am going to do, but you have surely helped. Thanks again
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no problem I have to help someone on here once in a while, or they'll throw me out for being a pain
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HA! That's understandable. Now to keep the pointless converstation going, how 'bout them Yankees?
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It's very difficult when other people around you have experiences or attributes you don't have. However, in the end these don't matter nearly as much as being true to yourself. If we go around doing what we think will please others, we're likely to please no-one and we've handed our lives to others. It also means we're likely always to think we're not good enough, because we compare ourselves to someone extraordinary.I'm not saying you should or shouldn't do it, but I am saying that it should be your decision.
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Hey guy. Don't let your friends presure you into anything you aren't ready for. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin (I was until I got married and believe me when you tell a girl you saved yourself for her it really makes her feel special). If you choose not to wait until you are married, my advice to you is to wait for someone you are at least in love with. Your first time is something you will always remember and it should be with someone you want to remember (don't be to disappointed if the first time isn't all that great either -- like anything else, it gets better with practice). As for your friend all having had sex, don't believe them all. I'm sure some have, but there are some who haven't and are saying they have just to be cool. My friends did that in High School.