whats up, im 14 and me and my girlfriend kiss nonstop when were alone and I would really like to go farther. I hear stuff like to just really slowly go down her stomach to her pants and than i hear to ask her first, and than I heard that girls dont like it when guys ask. so I was just wondering what I should do... Thx! also she has felt my penis be4 and its about 6 inches and im 14, do you think that is normal size? thx!
Question about goin farther
Some girls may want the guy to do it but not want to give explicit spoken permission. I think going slowly to the area is the usual way to do it - if she pushes your hand away or says no that's a clear signal and you must stop. If she's felt your penis already, though, she's probably hoping you'll do something. Consider the breasts first, though.
Six inches is a little over average adult size, so you're fine.
>>>"If she's felt your penis already, though, she's probably hoping you'll do something."
Dont say that )= It reminds me of my ex who constantly tried to go down my pants....but I would stop her like Ive done other girls in the past. Its liek you said though...its pretty safe to conclude that a girl is interested sexually if shes doing that. I still dont want to admitt it though, because while I could have sex with this last one, and really wanted to, I didnt. It changed a lot of things and then with other some issues at hand...it just ruined things, because she was 2 years older and wasnt into a guy like me in terms of save my virginity. She said that she felt as though I was basically telling her that she wasnt good enough to have sex with me and it really made me feel guilty and sad. Sometimes, I question my decisions. Sigh sorry for going off on my tangent...it just really hit a nerve in my heart when you said that. If I keep this up, Ill be that 40 year old virgin in that 40 year old virgin movie that was released this summer. Only 17 years to go
At least in my experience, I was a virgin and my boyfriend was not. He had made it clear beforehand that we'd only take a step further when I was ready for it.
One night when we'd been cuddling eachother, just petting, kissing and teasing, I felt 'ready' and I told him so. I really did appreciate the fact that he left me make the first move though. It made it into a wonderful experience for me.
At that age sex was more like a card game . She deals the cards and you have to figure when to bet. It's seemed easier to move slowly (breast outside shirt, bra strap, inside shirt, ass & inner thighs outside pants, then crouch and dry sex) so they could get comfortable with the whole thing at their pace. I really do miss those days.
"It's not the kill, but the thrill of the hunt"
yeah if shes touched your dick;; then im sure she's interested. but i personally, wouldnt want a guy to ask me i would just want him to do it and if i wasnt comfortable i would just avoid it or give him a hint.