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what up, on friday night me and my girlfriend were hangin out watchin tv and she gave me a handjob, the only problem is it went 30 minutes w/o me comeing and i never did, i can cum from masterbation in about a minute, but she was going sooo slow, I know she has only done it once be4 to another guy and the fag got her drunk first, but idk because, after like 30 minutes she said "what do u want me to do" and I asked if she would go faster and she said i dont want to hurt you and i told her she wouldnt and than she stopped so I was wondering if they think its rude or something to tell them to speed up but im not sure what to do thx!

Ello Mate, I don't let girls go down on my cause i think its disrespectful to them, but I've had girls who are friends ask about this, and they WANT the man to tell them what to do, they don't know unless they have a little guidance. She is probably just new to it.

I don't let girls go down on my cause i think its disrespectful to themWhat? Where did you get that idea? That makes close to zero sense. It's ironic that probably more men think that than women do.Do you think you're being disrespected if you bring your girlfriend a cup of coffee?

Just how I was raised I spose

Just how I was raised I sposeIt's time to get over it. You're a grown-up now.

Interesting, I thank my own god (Joe Pesci) I wasnt raised that way every time I get a blow job.for the Pesci reference, look into George Carlins material

Sometimes girls want to know what to do, so no its not wrong to tell her, girls have such a pressure to do it right these days she will probably be glad you did........tell her, put your hand on her hand and guide her, so she knows it won't hurt you etc etc

i dont think theres anything wrong with telling her- but guide her at the same time, it will be less awkward if your just open telling eachother what you like

In reply to: I don't let girls go down on my cause i think its disrespectful to them, hey, i think thats a good quality to have. too many girls feel pressured to do it for their boyfriends and still do it because they feel it is their 'duty'. good on you! anyway, personaly i woud rather they advised what they wanted. i dont want to spend my life giving crap hand/blow jobs. id much rather they told me so i can improve rather than them trying to avoid hurting my feelings or anything

I guess that is normal for some ppl to do. maybe they take offense easily?[Link removed]

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if the hand job doesn't cut it.... Guide her lips to it and tell her to relax and breath thru her nose.... that way she won't gag!

"I don't let girls go down on my cause i think its disrespectful to them"I respect your treatment and care for women, but there's no reason to view oralsex as disrespectful or demeaning for the recievers part. Oralsex, to me, is about giving your partner pleasure, and to enjoy giving your partner pleasure. It doesnt have to be a demeaning act. And hey, does this mean that you refuse to give your gf oralsex if she asked, because you would feel disrespected? I hope not. It's good to have such respect and care for the women, and avoid putting pressure on them, but there's no need to view oralsex as disrespectful. Sometimes it can be meant as a disrespectful act when a guy gets a girl to blow him. Other times the girls just wants to give the guy pleasure, and you're supposed to lie back and enjoy. Theres no negative elements from either giver or reciever in the last situation. Hope you know what I mean.

I always give a girl oral if she wants it, I just don't prefer it for myself. Woman have enough presure on how to please there man out there.

What if you're with a woman who refuses to rececive oral sex because she doesn't want to disrespect you? Taken to absurdity, it could be disprespectful to let another person touch you.> Woman have enough presure on how to please there manI could see your point if you're in the men's room of a bar, with a woman you just met. But I don't see how that applies to a loving, compassionate relationship. In that context, you just want to please each other.If you're willing to do something to someone that you're not willing to let her do to you because it's disrespectful, in a way, you're putting yourself above the other person, since you're willing to make a "sacrifice" for them that you're not allowing them to make for you.Really, a blowjob is not a dirty thing.

A blowjob is definitely not dirty, or in my eyes demeaning to women...........in fact I personally thinks it implies a lot of trust in a partner, i mean whos in control the man, or the woman with him in her mouth LOLI don't like the idea that some guys think a BJ is 'expected' from their partners, THAT, is demeaning, but a BJ given voluntarily, or more to the point willingly isn't.

Be careful. I've had a many girls give me their "First BJ" and I feel it is because I never asked for it. In almost every case I was told it was their first one but someone tried to force them in the past. That stuff screws with people for a long time. Enjoy what they want to do and list will get longer.

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