I want to ask out my ex-gf...

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Dude you need to chill. If not getting a girl has THAT much of an affect on you... then you need a hobby.

I hear building paper airplanes is very therapudic...

Guys..Are all these insults aimed at me or CloudlessRane?

They aren't insults really, they're trying to snap rane out of his narrow outlook on life because hes focusing on how bad is life is rather than trying to look for good things. He's very much a glass half empty person. Infuriating!! And tom, I think in your situation I wouldn't go back to the girl, I would keep moving forwards or you will miss a great opportunity with someone who will be great for you, rather than runing over old ground. Why did you two split up??

rane of course

Well..I dunno. We were on our way from school, and gonna go to my house. Theres this park near where I live. See, theres like a few shops, just sweet shops, a DIY shop, pet shop, a vet place and a flourists and all together thei in the shape of a C, and in the center of the C is this park. Its got three benches and a monument for the people who died in World War 2. Oh yeah, and a load of trees. So we were just sitting in there, laughing and joking, when she got a sudden text on her mobile. Her face went sort of scared and angry and upset, then she just said 'I have to go and Im sorry..But Im dumping you' and then she ran off (Her house is, like mine, very close to the park, but we're on opposite sides of the area if this makes sense)

Dont worry Tom, it's at me. Fortunately, these people are horrible at insults :grin: If anything, they are just jealous at your current position, you need to realize how great your life is at this point, and you dont need a g/f, youve had a lot at this point and you just need to enjoy the memories you already had. Java, you fail again :sunglasses:

Cloudless, I am not siding with you or Java when I say this, but it is not the end of the world if you dont have a girlfriend. You'll get one eventually, and whenn you do, for the first time, itll be amazing

ahh you werent talking to me, but what you said really makes me feel better. thanks

Its so much better that you wait and built up a relationship than just charge in and ask anyone out. Make it special..Dotn miss out

What are you talking about i fail again? I dont give a damn about I have a greg fella, with great sex life.

That's very mysterious, about that text. It sounds like someone was saying you had cheated on her, or something like that. It would be helpful to know what it said.

Text doesnt talk.

I know, but everything I have just told you is all I know. I never found out what the text said, and I know that I never cheated on her. To me, there was nobody who could be more perfect than her. Well, she proved me wrong..

That's so strange! Did you never ask her what happened ? Or what the text message said!?!

I asked her more times than youd believe, but her only answer was a glare..Still no idea what I did wrong

After looking back at what happened, do you really want to get caught up in that situation again?? To be honest, it can't have been that deep if something seeming so simple (hehe sorry about all the s's then ) broke you two up??? And with the ease that it broke you up..