STD ? Worried !

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I have a question concerning STD's ! I am a very concerned individual ! I am tramatized about what happened to me yesterday. I'm scared ! I went to the gym, it was an a good day. I was doing good with my weight loss goal. However, I didn't quite complete my day the way that I was hoping to do. While I was in the dry sauna (a great way to sweat) I had a very unpleasurable and scary experience. As you know most men, including myself only go into the sauna with a towel on. While I was in there yesterday, I noticed out of the corner of my eye that a male was playing with himself and masturbating. There were only three of us in the dry sauna. I pretended that I wasn't noticing. The other guy must have caught the same thing, because he got up and left (what I should have done). I just closed my eyes and was relaxing. I was trying hard at this diet, I needed to stay and lose some water from sweating to decrease my body weight. Well, before I knew it, this guy that was masturbating was sitting right in front of me. When I opened my eyes and looked down at him, he was still sitting there masturbating. I was stunned. Before I knew what was going on, he put his hand through my towel and was stroking my dick. He was masturbating me. I did not want this, and I let him know. I am straight, a christian, and am in a monogamous relationship with a beautiful wife. Needless to say, my day was cut short in the sauna due to this gay encounter. He tried to suck my dick, but I was able to get away. So, he only had his hand on my dick. My question is... I sure didn't get a real close look at his dick or scrotum to see wheteher or not I could see anything or not. I tried to get a climpse to see but I just wanted to get out of there. With him masturbating himself and then putting his hand on my dick and doing the same are there any STD's that I am in danger of getting and what is the likely hood ? I know so many STD's are out there these days. This was a very unpleasant experience, I don't know if I can go back to that sauna again ! But like I said, I'm just worried about the possibility of STD's ! Please HELP !Sincerely,Worried Individual

First of all, don't post the same thing in two different forums.

Your story sounds a bit far-fetched, but assumining it was true....

> I was trying hard at this diet, I needed to stay and lose some water from sweating to decrease my body weight.

That makes absolutely no sense. You might as well just stop drinking water and get dehydrated, for the same effect.

If the guy was touching his penis, especially if he ejaculated, there is a chance that he might have exposed you to some STD, if he had one. The idea that you were sitting there with your eyes closed, alone with a masturbating guy, is just plain crazy. You were sexually assaulted. If you were in a gym that requires membership, you need to find out who that guy is. What if he does the same thing to someone else?

You also need to get checked for whatever STDs the folks who are doing the testing think you might have been exposed to.

EXCUSE ME ! The reason I posted this in two forums is because I didn't know which forum would be best for it to be in !My story is True ! Maybe you are farfetched !You must not know a lot about dieting ! If you stop drinking water you only retain more water by the sodium that you eat. Water helps to flush out your system. Saunas do work....or why do they exist? Do you use them? If so, why in the world for?He did not ejactulate while he was still touching me and then touch me with the same hand. It had ended by this time! I was in shock by this incident ! I didn't know what to do !My gym does require membership and has over 10,000 members ! How am I suppose to locate this guy again? What if I don't ever see him again ! I didn't exactly take down his name, #, and physical discriptors, I wanted to get the heck out of there !Anyone else.... are there anything you think that I might have been exposed to .... no ejactulation involved ! !

The reason I posted this in two forums is because I didn't know which forum would be best for it to be in !Choose one, then. If you're talking about a sexual assualt, then the Masturbation forum is not the right place.> My story is True ! Maybe you are farfetched !It may be true, but it's far-fetched that an adult would sit there with a masturbating guy, and then let himeself be sexually assualted by said guy.> Saunas do work....or why do they exist? Do you use them? If so, why in the world for?That is ridiculous. WTF does how much water you retain have to do with your diet? You diet to lose fat. If you drive water out of your body, with or without electrolytes, what is the point? Are you trying to get healty, or are you trying to impress your scale? Your water content is not your issue. It's your fat content. Whatever Saunas are for, they're not very efficient weight loss tools. Where are you getting your dieting advice?> My gym does require membership and has over 10,000 members ! How am I suppose to locate this guy again? What if I don't ever see him again ! I didn't exactly take down his name, #, and physical discriptors, I wanted to get the heck out of there !In my gym (Gold's), you have to check in with a membership card that gets electonically scanned. When you do that, your picture pops up on the screen. So, at my gym, they know who's there, and when. I've never seen 10,000 people in the gym at the same time.I'm not sure how you got in the position of being sexually assaulted, but after you were, it became a police matter. I don't know whether the gym will cooperate in tracking this guy down (since they may be tryijng to protect everyone's privacy), but if you file a complaint with the police, they will cooperate.If the guy just touched your penis, the risk of transmitting something bad is pretty low. But there are no guarantees. I would suggest that you get yourself tested, to be sure.

Chill Out. Steve is trying to help, and hes right you dont post things in two forums. Now that thats out of the way, Do Not try to lose weight by 'sweating' it off, that doesnt work. Why did you stay in there after you saw what he was doing hmm? Anyway, the chances of getting a bad std is slim to none, but i would get tested to make sure.Saunas exist cause they are very relaxing and a stress reliever, thats why people have them at their homes.

With all due respect thank you for your replies thus far, however...This forum or my question has nothing to do with dieting, I have lost 35 pounds by my methods and am not asking anyones opinion on dieting or it's methods at this point.I also didn't ask what you think that I should do about the matter of what happened !The facts related to this was mearly to tell you about why I am worried and what happened in my incident ! My only real concern at this point was the chance of STD's and what they were !Again, Thank you for your responses and I am saying these things out of respect ! However, please only answer the question that I had ! Thank YOU !

You brought up the issue of dieting, not me. If you say that a sauna is a good dieting method, you're wrong, and you might mislead someone else who reads this, if they have no knowledge about dieting.

Driving water out of your body will cause a temporary weight loss, but is no means of dieting, and is unhealthy for some people. I'm glad you lost weight, but that proves nothing about saunas. You could have thrown a handful of salt over your shoulder every day, and you would have still lost the same 35 pounds.

As far as the STD risk is concerned, I'll repeat: If the guy just touched your penis, the risk of transmitting something bad is pretty low. But there are no guarantees. I would suggest that you get yourself tested, to be sure.

Given what you described the chances of you contracting an STD is very slim. My only concern would be if you had any type of break in your skin. If you are concerned I would suggest taking the advice of seeing your doctor and having any test run that he suggests. However, if I were you I would not worry about it.

I agree that the situation is really sexual assault and the guy in the gym should not have done what he did. A good way to get punched out if you want my opinion.

Just so your aware, there are some gyms that become known as places for guys who want this type of activity to occur to come too (especially saunas and steam rooms). And then there are, of course some guys looking for this type of activity.

I probably would have done the same thing you did regarding staying in the sauna and just ignoring him, since I don't like being run out of places just because someone else has other plans (sort of a live and let live attitude). Him touching me with out my permission would have gotten a much stronger reaction than you gave him.

Personally, I would go back to the gym and do my thing just like always, including using the sauna. However, I would suggest that you decide in the future what action you will take if something like this should occur again (it may never). You have the 2 choices, leave, like the other person did. Or stay. If you stay, I would be a little more concious regarding the other individual. Not that you have to watch, but be aware if he moves towards you that you can indicate before he gets to the point of touching you that your not looking for that. Move away, leave, say sorry not interested.

Actually steve this time Im going to disagree with you. It does make sense, in a way...In Highschool I was on the wrestling team and we did that all the time. Now keep in mind it wasnt a long term thing, it was "shit iM 2 lbs over my limit to wrestle in the meet tonight"sweat it out.I worked ina place that is 120 to 130 degrees f all the time. we had places to escape the the heat and cool off an then take anohter 10 to 20 minutes standing there working and another break, all that for 12 hours a night. we ha to weigh in at shift start and end to make ertain we werenot to dehydrated and needed medical attention.Short term quik results you will lose weight if you sweat.I think in this case the OP doesnt realize that its short term and once he has a drink he gains that weight back.Wrestling, we sweated our ass off to make that one pound or few ounces or what ever it was so we could compete. ater the weigh in we were sucking down gatorade and water tryig ot get teh energy and strength back up to normal so we could compete eectivly.it makes sense to lsoe water to lose weigth so long as you understand that its VERY short term and isnt good for you.Imean it doesnt make sense to do it, but it is right that it works.to the OP, you cna go sweat it out, you lose a pound or 3 and then you go get a drink, that same weight is right back on your ass.Saunas are great to sit in a bit, get hot as shit and sweat.Opens up your poors and is relaxing and feels good after a good work out. They are not a method for shedding pounds.If that is your best plan you will be sorely disapointed with the results.

> Actually steve this time Im going to disagree with you.

I agree with everything you said after that sentence.

For a new member you have a hell of an attitude. Come in here and ask for help and then tell us to go piss up a rope.You are not supposed to post in 2 places, pick one, people will find it. people wil respond. When someone gives you some advice instead of dismissing it go look into what they said and research it a bit. I dont mean ask your buddy Imean research the shit. If you dont agree with it maybe you dont know enough and the research would do you some good. If its worng then you can post the findings and correct people from spreading wrong information.Your an ass.Your also a chickenshit. Im someplace and someone is wacking it for me to view and im going to sit there and close my eyes??Jesus jumped up christ, Iv knocked people on thier ass for far less then that. You could of at a minimum left, reported it to the desk and identified him upon leaving.Personally I woulda busted his ass then reported it.

If you think someone has an attitude...you need to check yourself ! Yes I did come in here asking for help.. jerks like you would make someone think before they did ! I didn't tell anyone to go piss on a rope ! I said "EXCUSE ME" in reference to Steve when he had as well as you are having a piss poor attitude about posting in 2 forums ! I had never incountered anything like this before. I have never used a forum like this before for help. I didn't know if all of the members read every forum like you must do ! I just wanted assistance and I thought that may be the best way to do it ! I did research and research some more, I wanted to get all of the info that I could ! Nothing I have said has been wrong and this is a true story, do you always slander people who look for help? You have no idea what kind of person I am and had no need to call me a chick**** ! Maybe not all of us are a violent uncontrolled jerk like yourself ! And speaking of Jesus ! Seems like you need to find him and clean yourself up a little bit ! Jesus is the reason for the season ! You need a Bible in your hand, that way you couldn't make so many fist ! God Bless ! I'll be praying for you and your attitude !

And speaking of Jesus ! Seems like you need to find him and clean yourself up a little bit ! Jesus is the reason for the season ! You need a Bible in your hand, that way you couldn't make so many fist ! God Bless ! I'll be praying for you and your attitude !I see. Christians can get pretty angry, like everyone else, apparently.In the future, pay attention to your self-preservation instinct. That doesn't mean that you have to slug the other person. It means that you get up and leave, if you're in a dangerous situation. In any case, by not getting up and telling the folks running the gym, you've put future people in danger. That pervert may still be out there looking for another victim. Hopefully he's not attracted to kids.To reapeat, the chance that you caught anythng is very small, but no one can tell you absolutely for certain. You can pray about it, you can just keep worrying about it, or you can get yourself tested. There are no psychics here. We're not even doctors...we just have opinions.

You are right Steve I did get a little upset ! I do realize it, and I'm sorry ! It's just that last post was really off the wall and rude ! Thank you so much for your post, it was a lot better than your others ! I really enjoyed you speaking from this attitude and this point of view! Thanks for the reassurance ! God Bless ! Everyone thanks so much for your posts thus far ! Have a very merry CHRISTmas ! ! !

From the scenario, I honestly believe you enjoyed the experience and possibly wanted it to happen. Later after the encounter, you thought about it and are worried you may have caught something, so you are disguising the scenario to seem accidental. If this is the case, don't do that. Just be honest, this is a forum and nobody here knows your real identity, nor does anyone care.

But to answer your question.... YES you probably have an STD because a guy who would do that is obviously upset with the world, has no reason to live, and wants to inflict his illness on the rest of the world by any means necessary.

I'm kidding... but yeah you really do have a chance at an STD... I think at least... What do you mean he TRIED to suck your dick? did he go down on you, or did he just ask or what? your not explaining anything thus far involving an exchange of blood, unless he had a cut on his hand or you had an open sore on your cock or something.... But then again.... by you being in a sauna sweating, your pores were open so you were more susceptible to any diseases, though the risk were very slim being that there was no actual cock to butt connection amongst you both.... so you claim....

No, I'm sorry, but you are way off track. I didn't enjoy the encounter in any aspect. I was being honest, thank you very much ! Don't be so quick to judge people ! You might want to just give your opinion on a topic, instead of telling people what they thought. That will gain you more respect. Thanks for your reply none the less ! God Bless ! Have a Merry CHRISTmas !

Sorry if there was a misuderstanding. In any case, have a happy holiday.