I keep having these dreams that someone is raping me. everytime it is a different man anda different place. I even get scared when ever I am around guys, thinking that they are going to rape me. I was never raped before, I don't think. So why am I like this? Help me figure out whats going on. :confused:
Do I need a psyco thereapist?
Is there any other experience, even if not rape, that has happened before, such as a guy coming onto you too strongly?
Fears do seem to manifest themselves in dreams sometimes. I was scared that a friend was unhappy with me, and I kept having dreams where this friend would ignore me, and want little to do with me.
Anxiety can contribute as well. I suffer from anxiety disorder, and it's not rare for me to have over the top, weird dreams that don't seem to make any sense.
Last night I dreamt I was getting it on with my ex-girlfriend. We got naked and she had a penis, but I fucked her anyway, she had a pussie under her balls. When I woke I wanted to throw up.
But back to the isssue at hand...you could perhaps talk to some form of counciller or some such. Does your school have a drop-in centre? I used to go to one to talk about all kinds of shit back when my parents were splitting. I thinks its just a very natural fear appearing in your dream. I think we all dream about things that scare us and I guess if your especially scared of this then your gunna keep having that fear. So the issue here is dealing with your fear, that could be getting your sub-concious to accept that the vast majority of gusy arent rapists or it could be more complex. Drop-in centre's are the answer to most these things in my experience, you wouldnt believe the many varied and wierd stuff they helped me with (well okay on this forum anything's possible). So if your school dont have a drop-in centre where you can talk to someone about this then see if there is one in town. Like in my city theres one in town you just drop by anytime and make an appointment to talk, absolutely free. Hope that helps.
...and oh wow we have the same birthday! Well happy birthday for last week :grin:
And the same to you!