Didnt really know where else to go with this one, but me and my girlfriend have decided to have sex for the first time, her first and mine. I was just wondering what to expect? what could go wrong and what to do if it happens? weve planned this quite a lot so i cant see much going wrong, but im still kind of expecting it to. So any advice? i was also wondering, is size really going to matter? because im not exactly huge and i dont think she knows that unless shes caught on? im probly asking these questions in the wrong place all together, so sorry if i am.
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First time?
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Make sure you use a condom and have extra ones available. Make sure you take your time with lots of foreplay. Don't expect fireworks the first time - it's a good thing not to expect too much.For the first time, she is likely to be tense and smaller is better than bigger.
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ok ill keep that in mind and yes i will be using a condom if you dont mind me asking, why have spares?
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just incase you guys feel like doing it again right after, you dont reuse the same condom and its good to have spares around if you'll be doing this more often. She will most likely be very tense and small will be better. lots and lots and lots and lots of foreplay. Have fun.
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Ok ill try and get some spare, something really embarrasing about buying them though but its not exactly gonna stop me geting them. I dont know how often this will become we dont really have anywhere to go are parents are always at home:(. We managed to find somewhere though. Your right we probly will end up doing it right after, my girlfriend has and unusualy high sex drive im not complaining though . Is size going to matter about how much i can please her though? I want her to enjoy herself as much as i probly will be. There will be lots of foreplay to we have talked about this. EDIT: sorry that post doesnt really read very well i was just trying to address most of your points
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I dont think its emabressing, It means your getting some! lol purchasing depends would be embaressing :P. Anyways, Almost all (acutally all right?) of a females nerves and sensories are right at the opening and most girls orgasm just by clitoral stimulation and not so much thru actual penetration. my fella right now isnt the largest ive been with, but hes uncomparably the best.
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chances are that it may be painful for her and there may be blood too, so be prepared to go VERY gently and VERY slowly. Watch for her reactions. Spare condoms are always useful incase you accidentaly rip the first, or put one on the wrong way etc...and foreplayforeplayforeplay!
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My 2 cents. Practice putting on condoms. Act confident even if you aren't, it does wonders. Size doesn't really matter, especially the first time. Lots and lots of foreplay to get the juices moving along. And, if you're worried about endurance and being the minute man, it would probably help to masturbate earlier in the day before you meet up with her. Don't worry too much though, a girl's first time is probably best left relatively short.
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It's also good to have spares in case they tear or something happens with the other one
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buying condoms isent imbaroussing, when your mature enough to buy them with out feeling embarroused then your mature enough to be ready for having sex, thats my philosophy!
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An English teacher I have this year told last years class "Make sure to buy them in a different town than your own so you never see them again. That way they cant ask how it/you were more importantly they cant tell your parents"Minbd you this teacher just celebrated her 82nd B-day but thats a different story in its own right.