I recently started having sex and have some questions. For one, is it weird for me to not be able to cum until 45 minutes or so have passed by? And another thing, my girlfriend cannot seem to make me cum when she gives me a handjob or blowjob. I feel bad about it sometimes because I'm making her feel good and sometimes she can't fully return the favor. Any help or insight would be greatly appreciated.
Started having sex and have questions
Weird? No. Unusual? yes. Most guys last less than 5 minutes on average inside the vagina from the moment they first penetrate until they orgasm (assuming no stopping or pacing). However, most women would find you a hero for lasting 45 minutes! Most women complain that their "minute men" don't last long enough to get them to orgasm.
As for not getting to cum when your girlfriend gives you a hand job or blowjob, it is probably a mental thing. Maybe you're not used to the sensation, but I think for whatever reason, you're just not mentally into it. The more mentally turned on you are to what is happening to you, the quicker and easier you will cum. Orgasms are entirely controlled by the brain. They are not reflexes. So, you need to examine what's going on that head of yours first to diagnose the problem.
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or the lack of getting off from her hand job or blow job can be due to inexperience
actually its almost always cause hes used to his own touch.
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cmon however old this kid is and his girlfriend they are both inexperienced. i will agree with you that he is used to his own touch but i believe his girlfriend might be a little unsure of what she is doing
Have her use some lube when she gives you a hand job or a blow job. It's not feeling the same as when you do it and ya can't cum...
Are you standing, sitting down, laying down.. Try it while you are on your knees and your legs are spread so everything is hanging there she can rub,shake or play with everything that is hanging from your sugar tree.....