I have been going out with my bf for almost a month, and Saturday we wanted to spend new Years together. The only problem is that I am at my Dad's and he does not know we are together [ my mom does ]. I was planning on spending the night at Ian's house since we are going to some parties and by the end of the night, probably won't be able to function :] I was thinking about telling my Dad that I was going to spend the night at a friend's house after a show. Ian lives in the other school district, which is not far, but my Dad, when he drops me off at his house, will wonder why my 'friends' house is over there. What should I do? My mom would never let me spend the night at his house either :-/
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Help anyone?
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Your father is very likely to make enquiries about whose place he is dropping you off at. He may even make enquiries inside when he drops you off. Your chances of using your parents for transport and yet keeping them in the dark are pretty low, I'd think. What is your father like? I assume you haven't told him about your bf because you think he wouldn't approve.In the medium term, you need a plan to get your parents more comfortable with your bf. Can you get your and his parents together? In the short term, I'd forget about spending the night at your bf's place unless you can come up with some arrangement your parents would be happy with.
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I agree with ineligible. Plus ive been in that position before, almost exact, well except it was a gf and not a bf. Neways, I suggest being honest with your parents about your relationship with him. I would also not count on staying the night with him, at least this year. And dont lie to your parents (not saying that you are), because u will regret it later in life.....trust me
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Nevermind. We went out on Tuesday, and that night we had smoked out and stuff with other friends. My father somehow found out..I have NO idea how, but he did and he just got done talking to me about it..I can't go out until I turn 18 and I am not allowed to spend the night at anyone's house ever..that's going to be until June 18..
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man, if i had seen this sooner i would have said "Dont sneak around, you will get caught. You wont know how, but you will."