ok lately ive been having alot of problems with my friends. my two best friends are a girl and a guy. we do everything together. but ever since jenna brought chris on vacation with her parents, nothings been the same. they are soo much closer. and i feel like they dont want me around anymore. i always ask jenna if anything is happening between them but she swears its not. they dont want to mess up their friendship, plus it would be weird becasue theyve known eachother since they were 4. but they are always on the phone together and always doing stuff and they never invite me anywhere. i feel really hurt and i get really upset and me and jenna have fights. we're actually in a fight right now because i got pissed they were doing stuff after school and didnt invite me. and whenever i am there, i feel like a 3rd wheel and that i really shouldnt be there. i dunno what to do or what to tell jenna. can someone please help me figure this out. thx.
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Problems with friends
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I hate to say it but your gonna have to talk to 'em about this. Nothing anyone can say here can help you your gonna have to help yourself. Tell them that you are feeling left out or whatever your feeling, prehaps there not aware that they are leaving you out y'know.
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And I'm afraid that if two friends become a couple then they will - must - be doing things together without you, and some drifting away from you as they get closer is inevitable. It's just one of those things you have to accept.
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yea see i wouldnt even mind if they did this and they were going out...but theyre not theyve stated too many times that NOTHing is happening and thats what pisses me off. i dunno if i should be the one to talk about it first cause right now we arent speaking to eachother.
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Hmmm, sounds like you're in a tough spot. I think you should apologize to Jenna. If you apologize in the right way, she will realize you feel left out and then she'll probably talk to your guy friend. They may not realize what they're doing to you and a tiny wake up call can be all that they really need.That's all I would do, anyway.....
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thx u guys, i talked to jenna and told her how i felt and we came up with a conclusion to make us all happy. everythings back to normal again