Anal..

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ok, like i tried anal right, and right away it hurt and i told my bf to stop. but he'd like to try it again, and for some weird reason i would 2. but i am afraid for it to hurt again cuz it hurt kinda bad. we didnt have lub, we had a lubed condom though, and he said he might of gone to fast in or hard or 2 much at once. idk. any tips or suggestions? n i have some other questions. one- tips on head any1? two- what are some sex/handjob/blowjob things that guys enjoy, that i could try or something.

first off...for anal sex, lube is a MUST, there's no such thing as too much, have him massage and relax the anus, and if he/you are into it, a lil rimming goes a long way.as for tips on "giving head" tease it, lick around, under the head, just try different things and ask him which he likes much, comunication is a big key in sex, not just the relationship part

i agree with shadow kitten. Use a lot of lube and have your bf use his finger to relax your anus and go slowly.

To repeat myself and follow on what the others have said so far..."When anal sex is concerned, if it hurts, then you're doing it wrong!"...Seriously, the anal region has no natural lubrication (unless you want to count soft feces as lube shudders) so I'm actually surprised you weren't turned completely off of anal sex for doing it without any.Just remember to use as much lube as necessary and to take your time to relax yourself enough. The anus can stretch to accommodate large enough things (at least, large like the largest feces you ever excreted) but is usually reticent in taking things in. That's why you must caress it (with lube) and you must learn to relax it despite the physical contact. Breathing deep and slowly helps by the way. After that, you can start by slowly inserting a finger and again taking the time to relax yourself despite the feeling of intrusion. Savour these new sensations, it helps all the more. Eventually, you can move to two fingers and then three, by which time you should be relaxed enough for your boyfriend to enter you.

NO - there IS natural lube in the anus. You must never have tried your own or someone elses, or maybe my ass and my girlfirends asses are just unique (No). It's like - when I'm horny (I'm a guy), I get like sweaty wet down around my anus and on my inner thigs. Also, the anus, when it is clean, has lik ea muscousy clear type of fluid inside. True, its not as wet as a pussy, but it still IS wet with some sort of lube. Also, too much lube reduces friction for the guy (me, when I'm doing it to a girl), so it may make the dick limper (too much moisture can do that). So - I'm not saying use no lube, but if the ass is clean, there is a sort of natural lube inside, that works great for finger fucking etc. Its just the OPENING that isn't wet (unless you've been playing around with the inside). So - good old moisterizing lotion or lube against the opening, a decent amount, will do the trick, It's wet inside

Post on this U guys, this is the only forum on anal - do you agree with me?

post people -this site has weak posting for anal

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You are an impatient fucktard. Not only that but you have the balls to call us bitches and want us to reply to you? See that search button?I have been prowling this site since early October and I have seen at least 2 dozen threads, probably more, on various anal experiences. Just keep replying to yourself and don't bother to attempt learning any of the features...Some peoples kids....

for beginers, lube is a must, but when you're used to it, I find saliva works perfectly

Yes I had anal sex with my ex, let me tell you right now, there's several keys, first of all.. you HAVE to use lube the first few times and LOTS OF IT! hell use a small bottle of it at once. The second key is working yourself up to it, loosen your ass up for it, and then upon insertion, go slow and steady, more or less the initial pain is partly from the stretching. When you get it fairly stretched out, you can have your bf or whatever go at it pretty well without pain.

I'm not really big on anal. I've had a couple of GF's that enjoyed it and I did it to please them. Lube is essential! I remember once I got a little drunk and told my GF she as about to get it from behind. She said "Get the KY" and I did. My wife liked a finger in her anus but she never did take my dick. Maybe if she had lived we would have gotten to it more.
My present GF absolutely refuses any attempt. She's so adept at other sexual play it doesn't matter.
Remember there's a bunch of damage that can be done by reckless anal sex. In time things might not be so pleasant to the recipient with all that stretching.

I have read everyone’s replies…... I think one of the most important things to remember when thinking about having anal sex is to plan ahead and make sure your ass is clean. Wash it out… Clean it out…. I think its just nasty pulling your dick out of someone’s ass and it being covered in shit. It really messes up the moment. So spare everyone the gross experience and make sure you go to the bathroom first, clean it up and wash it. Then use the lube to relax it.

Because of the "shit" factor, one should use a condom as well as lube. I only encountered one girlfriend who loved anal, almost prefered it over intercourse. She was able to orgasm easy this way, but she said that I was too big for full penetration with intercourse. She was super tight either way. I have only tried it with others who wanted it done, for me I don't care for it.

I've always wondered....HOW do you get the chicks ass clean???? I mean I KNOW the shower part helps. But like, how do you go about cleaning the inside?????

well, you can get special shaped nozzles to go on showers, or you can just get an enema