Okay, here's the situation. There's this girl I really like. We're starting to become better friends and we've been talking more and more lately, with some casual flirting, nothing big of course. Seems like every other situation, right? Well, she's been kind of off and on 'dating' one of my best friends. I say 'dating' because they haven't technically been dating, although they almost may as well have been. They were sort of together fairly recently; about a month ago. It's kind of difficult to tell if they're 'together' or not at times, but yesterday, the three of us all went to see a movie together (talk about akward for me, lol.) Well, I told my friend that I didn't want to be the 'third wheel', since they had a thing with eachother. So that's good, I guess, even though he was flirting with her alot there, which indicates he still lieks her. So my question to you is, what should I do about this? I really like this girl, but I don't want to betray my friend.
What should I do?
Unless you want to lose a friend, all you can do is wait. Even if they don't work out, you'll have to discuss it with him first if you do respect him as a friend.
"Believe those who are seeking the truth; doubt those who find it"
Yea, I don't want to lose my friend, but I can't seem to stop the way I feel about this girl, which is my problem, not his, lol. Ugh, I wish I knew for sure what was going on between them two
I agree. You want to hold off until you know whether your friend is serious about this girl. Any chance you can casually ask him what's going on between him and her?