my bf cant seem to please me during oral sex the way i would like him to. i dont think he knows how to do it in a way that will pleasure my clitoris. and i dont even know myself how to direct him on how to. anybody experienced and perhaps with success at it, have any tips? or detailed steps?
Tips on Giving Females Oral Sex
I've been told that spelling out your name and his name with his tongue is suppose to be a good method, though i've never really tried it
Gentle very..slow and lightly brush the "lips" then open them and slightly go in and you'll feel it right away
Ask your bf to slowly and lightly lick and suck on your clitoral area (weather the clit or not), while he's doing that have him finger you with a come-hither motion. (thats where you have your palm to the sky, and you point to the person and pull your index finger to you in a slow motion) the come-hither motion will slowly stroke across your G-spot.
Every time I've done that, I've never had a complaint (first time I ever went down on a girl, she refused to belive it was the first time.) Trust me, you'll love it.
Well, if he's a noob to oral sex, he may not have a clue as to what or where your clitoris is. I guess a few ideas would be:
1.) Paint a big ole arrow down there, with the wording 'PAY ATTENTION HERE!!' painted in some flourescent colour (come on ladies, you know you've wanted to do this at one time or another LOL)
2.) I'm not going to be able to explain this next one very good, but maybe you'll get a general idea of what I'm trying to say (or maybe someone else can come along and explain better) Guide him to the spot, and 'over exagerate' it when he finally finds it. Give 'em a good moan, grab the back of his head, do SOMETHING to let him know he just hit the spot!
If the thought of something makes me giggle for longer then 15 seconds, I'm to assume that I am not allowed to do it.
Ok galen you got it right! lol
When he hits the spot you like,do what galen said, moan, squirm, let him know you like it, be vocal and tell him that spot feels great.. ect.. or when he finally does get there, tell him "Dont Stop"
As far as him knowing where to go, youll just have to tell him, start rubbing your clit so he knows you like it.Pull him up some, or scoot down so he'll hit it..lol And once he does get it,, make him not forget it by being vocal with your pleasure.
the best way for me is when my man lies down on his back and i sit so that my vagina is over his mouth. This was i can play with myself at the same time as him, and i love the feeling of his tongue inside me.
I like to start by slowly licking the sides of the calves and work my way up with my tongue. I slowly kiss behind the knees and then start licking the inner thighs until I get to the "Sweet spot".Then I gently blow on the outer lips and touch the clit with just the tip of my tongue. After that her pussy is so wet that I start to lick the outer lips until I get to the inner lips. I then slowly lick the clit and gently nibble on it. By then she's screaming and I start to suck on the clit while I'n running my tongue on it. Have had no complaints so far. Good Luck,