How can YOU tell?

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I got into an interesting conversation with my girlfriend tonight, and it's one that I hadn't really thought of all that much before. She is not a squirter but she does tend to 'leak' considerably. This said, we were messing around tonight, and after I had gone down on her and she got the strength to talk again, she asked me how I had known the exact moment that she came. I didnt really have an answer. :open_mouth: I just knew, I guess. She didnt moan because there were others in the house, but I still knew anyway from the way she was moving. It was sorta crazy.

How do YOU guys out there know when your girl comes? Is she a screamer, a squirter, a pillow-thrower or do you just know?

You don't, unless she tells you truthfully. That is, if the person you're with is someone you've known for a while. That's why faking is so easy to do.

lol faking is not easy to do for a girl who you've been with and paid attention too...for instance my girlfriend when i met her she had never had an orgasm... after getting her used to my size (her ex was a little... SHORT & THIN in that area...) she began cumming more...ALL WOMEN HAVE A GIVEWAY SIGNAL!!! ALL WOMEN DO!!! DONT DENY IT!!!they all so something when there cumming, that they dont realize there doing unless they have been video taped fucking a million times...my ex her nostrals flared, and her hands clenched, when asked why she was squeezing my forearms so hard she said that she wasnt squeezing...my current girlfriend her pussy goes into mild muscle spasms... when she cums her legs tighten around my waist, and her pussy feels like its going to choke slam my cock... she also opens her mouth extremely wide... She also scratches me but i think that is done intentionally....a word of advice that i didnt realize till it was too late... dont point out some of the things she does, cause then she can figure out how to fake it... i teased my girlfriend about her mouth thing for a bit... now shes learning to close her mouth when shes cumming, lol but im not going to tell her about her legs or pussy :-Pwell thats how i can tell, and if ur the type of girl that fakes you deserve a better dick than that! or at least a new vibrator...

No words more true have ever been uttered....A female orgasm is kinda like the bat cave. Very few people know where it is and if you're lucky enough to see it you probably don't know how you got there and you can't find your way back after you left.You know there are two types of female orgasm: the real and the fake. And I'll tell you right now, as a man, we don't know. We do not know, because to man sex is like a car accident and determining the female orgasm is like being asked 'What did you see after the car went out of control?'. 'I heard a lot of screeching sounds. I remember I was facing the wrong way at one point. And in the end my body was thrown clear.Jerry SeinfeldFrom: Seinfeld, The Mango

Quote:lol faking is not easy to do for a girl who you've been with and paid attention too... That's why I said if she's one you've been with for a while, but I guess I didn't word it correctly.Imagine a guy and girl hooking up at a bar, and they go home to knock boots. How is he supposed to tell if she gets an orgasm? You can't tell with ALL women. That's all I'm saying.

i know but in my post, i was basically agreeing with you on that... but i was disagreeing with the statement that you cant tell with ALL women... u CAN tell... you juss gotta figure it out. however long that takes...and to Radeckl im not saying that i know more about a perticular women than that women knows... although that is true alot of times in reality, at least with the women i hang around with (they didnt pay attention in health class is what i tell myself) but what i was saying, is that most women CANT tell what they do, cause they dont realize there doing it, its an automatic response for a persons body to do certain things when they come into action...for instance EVERY1 in the world has a lieing giveaway, u do something when ur lieing that gives away the fact that your lieing... only way to cheat that is if your completely focused, and relaxed when ur telling ur lie... or if u faught in veitnam and were trained to bypass lie detectors....but yea, every1 does something when they cum, they dont realize...i bit my lip, and when im having anal sex, my shoulders and triceps tense up... when im standing and having sex, my toes curl, i normally realize whats happening after they crack, but its not only women, its EVERY1...

Originally Posted By: GrownPastMyYearsbut i was disagreeing with the statement that you cant tell with ALL women... u CAN tell... you juss gotta figure it out. however long that takes...Well, then I guess we have to agree to disagree. I'm sorry, but I don't believe for a single second that you can tell if every girl had an orgasm. I can bet that over half the porn you or I have seen the girls are faking their moaning and screaming. I don't know the statistics but some, if not most most, will admit to faking. It's really easy to do.That is, if the girl you're with is someone you've been with for a long time AND is honest with you.

My last girlfriend would get sensitive to the touch, VERY sensitive, to the point the blowing cold air on her caused her to push me away.That and she kinda lifted up.

I tihnk I agree that most women have a special "thing" they do, like me its clenching my whole bottom part from my stomach to my thighs. On a second note, I have to clench hard and really concentrate to achieve one. . . any girls out there like that? Or just me

I'm female, and not sure how a female could fake an orgasm believably. In a female orgasm, your vagina contracts spasmodically... how do you fake that? Guys, a girl can moan and scream all she wants, but if her vagina isn't spasming, then she's not cumming. Yes, a girl can do Kegel contractions on you if she's bound and determined to be dishonest, but still she can't contract her muscles anywhere near as fast as an orgasm would contract them.

but if her vagina isn't spasming, then she's not cumming. You are assuming that ALL women have contractions so strong that they can be felt by the male.

Some don't contract? If they don't contract, it's not really an orgasm, right?American Heritage Dictionary:"orgasm -- The peak of sexual excitement, characterized by strong feelings of pleasure and by a series of involuntary contractions of the muscles of the genitals, usually accompanied by the ejaculation of semen by the male. Also called climax."Unsure how you'd get the waves of pleasure-sensation if you didn't get the contractions that cause those waves.I think a guy should assume that if he didn't feel her contract vaginally, she didn't have an O. I call B.S. on an "orgasm" that was so strong it caused a freakout of moans & screams yet no contractions...Of course, having never been a guy, I'm not sure if their penis can feel contractions happening around it or not. But their finger could.

I didn't say that. Reread my reply.

I actually can't tell with my girl, and it really frustrates me. I got stoked a few weekends ago because I got her to arch her back and make the face, I was sure I did it that time because of the look she gave. Then a couple of days later I got her to squirt, but she didn't make the face or freak out or anything so I was confused. I was wrong, anyhow, because the other night she told me that I got her closer than I'd ever gotten her before (implying that I've never actually made her come, bummer.) It didn't even seem like I was doing anything special. Some time soon though, I'll get her to come. She's one of those rare girls who actually tells you what you're doing right, so she'll have me taught before too long.That face she made though, same as the one someone mentioned with the wide-open mouth, is probably the most beautiful thing I've ever seen.