I just receantly found these boards and I decided to give it a shot and post and see if I can get some support since I am ashamed to speak about this.
I was circd as a child, for as long as I had remembered I had a large lump on the shaft under the head of the penis, I mostly tried to live with it , when I was about 16 I a very small hole on top of if, so I started squeezing it and to my surprise a lot of a white or yellowish substance with a bad odor started to spurt out like a really big pimple , after doing this frequently for some time I noticed the lump getting smaller, So I thought I eventually could squeeze it all out. When I was about 18 it got thinner but after squeezing it started to hurt, I was afraid I hurt myself and then after squezing a substance would come out but it was more liquid, also after researching on the net I found that I had "stitch" tunnels also which I used to think were zits on the shaft, I have like 4 on the back of my penis and they bother me because they look like zits that never go away and also I have a tunnel like hole on the right side of the shaft under some inner foreskin on the right side, but the difference is that it is only open on one end and it goes right under the skin. After the lump started to hurt I was really scared and went to an Urologist, he recommended redoing the circumcision, but my parents felt he didnt examine me thoroughly enough and were doubtfull, So I went to another one, an older guy , he said he just needed to remove the lump using local anesthesia, I told him of the other stuff and that I wanted at least the hole in the right side gone , after the op the lump wa removed but the left was not. Its better than before , but now worries are renewd , for some time now I noticed that I have a small lump where the old one was centered, I dont know if it was developed or left over, the "hole" also has me very worried because for some time now I think it could just serve as a deposit for some bacteria or something, also from this hole from time to time I squeeze it also and it builds up the same substance , its texture is similar and smells pretty bad. Also when I am erect the upper left side of the shaft hurts a bit and when I look at it the area looks a little out of level from the rest of the shaft, I dont know how to describe it and it started after the lump was removed. Now I'm really scared of going to an urologist, if something goes bad or worse than it is I dont think I could live with it. I have been considering the first urologists plan of doing the cicumcision again but im scared shitless of what could happen. I would appreciate any support/feedback I can get. What would you guys do? I really dont know what to do.
Please help, I have a few penis problems
if it's bearable then you can live with it.
but if not,and i reccomend this,see a few urologists.
you dont have to do something that one of em said!!
if all the others think a recirc is a good idea then maybe.
but i've been to bad dentist that have fucked my teeth up,one actually!the rest were very good.just do your research and make sure you're listening to the guy.
Sorry to hear about all the problems you've been having with your penis.
I would see two or three different urologists, and get several opinions before making a decision. If 2 out of 3 or 3 out of 3 say get a recircumcision, then that's probably you're best route.
For those of you who think circumcision is so great, here's another example of why it's a BAD idea, and can cause more problems than it solves. You can always fix or remove a malfunctioning foreskin. It's much more difficult to repair a botched circumcision like poor Omega has here, which happens more frequently than people realize.
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thanks for your replies. I think i'll do that and go to several of them and see what are my options, although im very inclined right now to do the recirc. I think most of my problems are my parents fault for negligence post circumcision, in fact even when I was older I told my mom about the mass and she did nothing and told me it was ok, so its not really about having foreskin or not, in either case a parents negligence is probably the decisive factor, im sure they pretty much didnt care, they are the kind of parents who NEVER talked to any of their children about sexuality, masturbation, intercourse, etc, therefor I found out by myself and you can say "the hard way". I see many posts of parents on the net who are very attentive after their sons circ jobs specially if they are babies and are concerned even for the costemic cnsequences that any little detail may have later in life. My parens screwed up a lot, like not even removing the stiches after a certain time past, when its done when you're older you can at least look after yourself.
That said, has anybody here has done a circumsicion job at an older age, if so could you share your experiences. I imagine it would be a lot like when I had the mass removed but im sure its not like doing the whole she-bang.
Dude... That's messed up. I just don't have any good advice to give you other than you should see several doctors and get some good medical advice and then have a nice chat with your folks and thank them for never taking you or these lumps serious enough to have it checked out right away. I’m one of the parents whose kids come to me all the time and ask me questions about sex, puberty and growing up. We have gone to the doctor several times just to have their questions answered or to have their young minds put to ease by the doctor’s answer. Do what you have to do, but have it looks at by the professionals. Good luck and let us know how it turns out!
firstly chill out man dont blame your parents for not being attentive. I can garuntee if this was done when you were little they would have taken great care of their little mans little man.
I am assuming you were cut early in life I was done aged 3.. Doctors at that time knew no better and neither did our parents (no internet) and took the best advice (mostly coming from america, Land of the free ability to charge 400 bucks for a circ).
Anyway they cut to much off me, to the point I have had 4 further operations and gone through loads of stretching / foreskin restoration to get back what has been taken away.
I too have skin tunnels and yes I too squeezed the muck out (on a daily basis) But after seeing the last consultant for my 4th operation he was able to do some tidying up of the shaft. I still have pittes skin from damage and some little tags of skin but it still looks a whole lot better than it did.
The doc recommending a circ knows what he is doing a quick way to earn some money!!! instead of taking the time to tidy up a bad job Bloody typical!
Go to your urologists get a 2nd 3rd 4th opinion but a circ is not the answer it will just make the skin tighter and pull your balls further up your shaft when your erect NOT GOOD
as for as the problem at hand i would take care of it to the best of your ability. if you are in pain for sure get a second, third and even fourth opinion before you get another jackass cutting away at your penis. i wish you well and send you my blessings, good thoughts & vibes and prayers.
yes this is what happens when a functional part of ones anatomy is forcibly removed for no reason. circumcision is the only operation done for no reason only for false reasons of "prevention, health & hygiene". and religious genital mutilations, its still mutilation in the name of religion. all of you with scars on your dicks can thank your parents for raping you. most of the scars are emotional. not all rape victims are women, most in this country are children and babies that are snipped, clamped and left raw. i plan on taking this up with my parents when the time is right, others should do the same. i will get off my soap box now.