hey, i have a few questions i need to ask about my girl. ill get straight to the point and it would be great if some chicks could give there view on it aswell. um well iv been going out with my girl for about 9 months now and when we get the chance to get upto things she dos'nt realy want to like she says that she tierd or her parents are in the next room and she wants to go bed etc. thats one things im not sure on is that ok? normal? she also dos'nt like the idea of tossing me off or giving me a blow job (says she dont like the idea of a penis in her mouth wich i spoze is cool) and when she dose toss me off its normaly inside my trousers is there any way to get her do it other wise(hehe)lol and the last real thing on my mind is she shudders wen i eather finger her or lick her out is that normal coz its got me !!! after saying all that i sound like im only in it for the action but i do realy love the girl. if you could reply and get some chicks view on these matter it would be cool
Sum female advise needed plz help!!!
I'm not a female, but I'll put my two cents in anyway. I think you should tell her you respect the fact that she doesn't want to do certain things, and most of all you enjoy her company. Give her the time she needs. She'll come around eventually.
Sounds to me like she's really not ready for it.
You have to be careful to not ask her too much or she'll start to think that all you care about is that sorta thing.
My guess is that you're both pretty young, and she isn't ready, or has been told horror stories, or her parents have warned her.