Jacking off with friends

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I really wanna jackoff with my friends.. i'm totally straight but i just really wanna look at porn and jackoff with them.. how do you think i should go about things?? should i ask them if they wanna do it? but i dont wanna seem like a perv to them..i also wanna try out jacking each other off and a little bit of sucking.. what should i do??

i love the line, im straight BUT......heheAll you can do is ask i guess lol, it all depends on ur friends, they will either be totally into it or you could ruin a friendshipMost likely they will be into it lolThese questions crack me up hehehe

In reply to:i also wanna try out jacking each other off and a little bit of sucking well this would mean your not strait, you're bi or bi-curious. If you like it, then you're most likely bi

You don't have to defend your orientation with "totally straight". If you want to suck your friends off you aren't totally straight, just like no one is. 'Straight' is a term used to define a preference of Women, but everyone is homosexual - "Gay", "Straight", and "Bi" are just general terms used to define your level of homosexuality. E.g, a "straight" person would be far less homosexual than a "gay" person, but there would still be a degree of homosexuality - even if it is not often.

Where the crap did you get that messed up information.Not everyone is homosexual.

I agree,That dosent even make sense,not everyone is homosexual.

I said that everyone is homosexual to a DEGREE.

Got research to back that up?

Nope, but it isn't required. Nor would it be able to prove anything because no one who considers themselves strongly to be "straight" would admit to seeing a guy in that way.

If you can't back that up with any kind of research or proof, then it is just your opinion which, while deserving of respect, actually has little credibility.I'm not totally disagreeing with you, but I'm not agreeing either. I do beleive there are different shades of sexuality and that not everyone (or even most) are at one end or the other. However, if we are going to allow that kind of diversity - people existing at every point along the continuum - we also have to allow for the possibility that some folks exist at 0 and 10 on the oft used but never proven Kinsey scale.

I do not buy the assertion that everyone is at least partially gay and that we all lie along some type of Gay/Straight continuum. I think that with very few exceptions people are either gay or straight (it is a binary option). Most people who proclaim themselves to be "bi-sexual" are actually gay. However, the pressure to conform to societal expectations causes them to seek out and have sex with people of the opposite sex. The mere fact that you are capable of having sex with women or even if you do so on occasion does not mean that you are sexually attracted to women.

Right, because everything is either/or in life, and especially with people. Frankly, you seem to base that on your own perception, which is completely subjective. If you could have an honest talk with many people around you you'd find that human sexuality is much more fluid than that.

I also hate how bisexuality is regarded by many. How many times have I heard from straights that bis are just sluts who'll sleep with anything, and from gays that bis are just gays in denial? Which frankly is often just a demonstration of a hidden agenda on both sides. It's much easier to deal with people when you can put them in neat, clearly-defined little boxes than to actually try and understand how they think and feel and that despite it not making any sense to you, it might for *them*.

It might be right for you and it might be right for many people. However, that doesn't mean that it is based on your inherent sexuality. The sexuality that you express is going to be based upon both your inherent sexual nature (either gay or straight) and the environmental forces that you are exposed to. Since our society generates a strong environmental pressure against homosexuality, people with inherently gay natures are pushed into bi or heterosexuality. The sexuality that they express may be right for them. However, it does not change the fact that there inherent sexuality is homosexuality.

It's my perception, I guess. I didn't really explain it very well - but there is room for people being completely heterosexual, yes. My perception is that the majority of people are at least partially homosexual, but because society is putting presure upon that orientation (perhaps not so much anymore) they supress this and label themselves as "Straight", suggesting complete heterosexuality. While this may possibly be true in some cases, there is little exception looking at other guys sexually, even if only slight.Either way, I can provide proof that sort of confirms what I'm saying. Porn is generally man + woman, and a lot of men watch it. They would not watch it (or certiantly getting as much enjoyment out of it) if it was just a woman bouncing up and down for an hour or so. Even this topic is an example of one of those cases:"i'm totally straight but i just really wanna look at porn and jackoff with them..""i also wanna try out jacking each other off and a little bit of sucking.. what should i do??"

It is common for teenaged boys to at least once jack off in front of eachother while watching straight porn. Heck even I did it when I was 16. But I did not turn out gay, nor did I ever want to suck a dick. If you want to suck a dick, that is probably because of all the sexual exposure you have had on TV and the internet. But no it is not right to go and do that. Especialy when your not an adult yet.

Once again, I agree that there are folks at all points on the continuum. However, if I say Colin Farrell is a good looking guy, that doesn't make me the least bit gay. If I am curious and wanna look at his dick, that doesn't make me in the least bit gay. If I fantasize about sucking his dick (which I don't), that is a gay fantasy, but still doesn't make me gay, anymore than gazing longingly at the moon makes me an astronaut. I think a lot of people are too quick to peg people as gay based on behaviors that don't warrant it. In reply to: Either way, I can provide proof that sort of confirms what I'm saying. Porn is generally man + woman, and a lot of men watch it. They would not watch it (or certiantly getting as much enjoyment out of it) if it was just a woman bouncing up and down for an hour or so. You've proven nothing, and in doing so you've made a faulty generalization. Have you polled all men who watch porn to see what they like or don't like. I can give you a whole list of men I know who prefer girl/girl porn over girl/boy stuff.How can you not think that's hot?!? In reply to: Even this topic is an example of one of those cases:"i'm totally straight but i just really wanna look at porn and jackoff with them..""i also wanna try out jacking each other off and a little bit of sucking.. what should i do??" Okay, so you've just given a couple of examples of a couple of kids who may rate a little gay. But that doesn't even begin to disprove the existence of guys who are completely straight.

Allow to disregard your claim, since it basically comes down to "that's how it makes sense to me". I'm sure the Earth being flat made a lot of sense to lots of people a while ago too,

if u really wanna do it find some gay blokes im sure they'd love to help u out mate

deffffffffffffffffinintly gay.