*My Girlfriend doesn't invite me ANYWHERE*

fireman

I would toataly dump her if I were you date someone else, she'll come running back

Ineligible

It's very good to see you back, DC03.

DC03

ok guys check this one out! so the nite after her "girls night" which really was a party for her friend with other guys invited ofcourse...shes with one of her girlfriends the whole nite and im with my friends...so i get a call at 1am saying that shes gonna be watching a movie at her friends house and she'll call me when she gets home but she might just sleep over. Im thinking to myself, isnt it a lil late to watch a movie at 1am...sounds alil shady, usually when shes at my house she has to be home at 1:30 am. So the convo was like me:"ok, can i talk to stacy"(her friend) Her:"no" me: "why not?Her: cause its rediculous why dont u trust meme: well let me just talk to her (no) Then call me from her house phone (no) Call me from her cell phone (no) please call me from her phoneher: If i do, do u have to talk to her personally? (no, i just want you to call me from her phone)-she calls me, the number comes up private which it never does-me: ok, now lemme talk to stacy (no, ur getting psycho)so basically it was back and forth, im thinking if she hadnt lied to me about the other nite and i demanded to talk to her friend, then i would be psycho. but the fact that she did, wouldnt u think if u were her, even if u really were at ur friends house, u would just do it to redeem urself from lying and gainin back my trust? so now we're on a break...what do i do from here?

AngelWitch

honey, honestly i would stay on a break. She sounds like she is being selfish and hurtful for no reason, you can do better.

pinkranger4

In reply to: so now we're on a break...what do i do from here? dump her!

DxLISHxISx_43

I'm sorry, but this chick is totally cheating on you. She probably keeps you around because you are a 'college man' and in some sick high school way...that seems cool.

Sorry for sounding so harsh, but you do not deserve to be treated this way.

JapanFan14

yeah dude dump her. you deserve better than some immature high school girl anyway. who says "you're being psycho"? wow.

DC03

thanks for everything guys, I told her we should end it for now...and in a way, i feel like i can breathe easier.

pinkranger4

good .. Thats a good sign that you're relieved

FlyingLearicon27

That's quite rare to say the least...Of all the relationships I have ever had I should let you know that only 3 times my girlfriend (different relationships) ditched me in order to be with her friend.It has not been one time that I would go out and not invite my girlfriend.Perhaps I am just stupid but I really want to be with her all the time.Not inviting you once when she is with friends and making up excuses is just her being disrespectful and not caring.Now about her ditching you many times in favour of her friends I must say only 3 girls did so to me and all 3 of them had their reasons as they claimed.I only exploded once and got very angry.Both other times I simply told her how I felt and even though I asked to go with her she refused making up excuses.Let me tell you that you have no reason to and actually shouldn't pick up a fight for such a reason.From experience these 3 relationships were doomed to fail and did not last long after the first year. All this coming from a guy who had 7 relationships in total and getting married now.Hopefully you talk it with her and she understands how badly she acted. Hopefully she shall understand what you mean to her and how disrespecrful she has been.However don't keep your hopes up.Such girls do not really care about you and usually such relationships end quickly.