Maybe I'm just an old softy, but I personally believe that sex should be reserved as the ultimate expression of love. Since it doesn't sound like you love this guy, I wouldn't say that you should do anything of that nature with him. Naturally it's up to you, but keep in mind that virginity is only something you have once; after you lose it, you cannot get it back. I mean, I'm a virgin myself, and yes, it might be nice to become sexually active, but I'm saving myself for someone who I think truly deserves it and could appreciate that what I'm doing is for them and them alone. I just think it makes things more special that way. *shrugs* In the end it is completely your choice, but in my humble opinion I think you should wait. At least think long and hard before you go and do something you may regret.
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yeah i agree with all of you it shud be something special and deep down thats wot i want ive been spking to this guy today and thats all hes interested in it seems. Im gona wait!!! Thankyou so much for all your help. Now cud someone tell how to give a bj?
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People I know don't care if they are having sex for love or lust. Some have sex because they believe it is fun. Others wait until they are in a relationship.
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Yes but im talking about having sex for the first time ever, after that can be between two lovers or two people who want fun, as i belieave sex is fun, no matter who it is between. I hope that makes sense.
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I don't think you should have sex at a young age. You won't be with this guy forever so why lose your virginity to him.
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In reply to: You won't be with this guy forever so why lose your virginity to him. Because sex feels good
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masturbating can feel just as goodI find that many young people these days are having sex because their friends are doing the same. Sure they may be doing it for fun and pleasure as well. But it's also a competition.
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In reply to: masturbating can feel just as good No it can't
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we're all entitled to our opinions
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I'd say (in a good ol' Jerry Springer fashion), "Dump this zeero, and get yo'self a heero".He's just keeping you dangling, saying it's for fun, but wants the opportunity to have sex. He's keeping his options open for sexual encounters with other girls by saying "Oh, it's just for fun, we'll have sex, but as I said it's just for fun I'm allowed to have sex with others".His friend seems just as bad. I think his mate is telling you that it may lead to something else just so his mate can take advantage of you. Steer clear, and save this special occasion for someone that cares about you. Once you lose your virginity it's gone, don't worry about others around you having sex either, don't feel pressured. If those around you are sensible you'll have more respect from them for actually respecting yourself.