I need someones advice I don't want anyone to get offended I'm just confused and have too many mixed feeling to see if I'm being selfish and shallow I am 19 turning 20 very soon and seeing this guy who is 12 days younger then me and have been for about 7 months when I met him we hit it off straight away I really like him and his asked me to move in with him I think we will be life partners and no it isn't puppy love
the only thing freaking me a little is that he has a 9 month old son I'm scared he'll go back to where he lives to either the mum or his son just for the childs sake. He tellls me all the time that he doesn't have feelings for the mother anymore and that he loves me. I love him dearly and care about him alot. He loves his son but doesn't see him at the moment he wants to start arranging to see him on a regular basis and I'm kool with this I'm not a jealous person and I understand he has to communicate with her and I think it's important to see his son but I'm also a little funny (maybe jealous I don't know) of his child becoz he has the experience of children before. I've told him about my concerns and he says that he won't go see him I tell him I want him to see his son becoz I know its important for a son to know his father and for my guy to know his son and thats what he wants then he should do it. He doesn't want anything to come between us so he now doesn't mention his son at all I'm scared I don't want to bring it up becoz I want him to go see him but want to be able to talk to him about it I want to know whats going on is that selfish I can't honestly tell him I'm kool with it cause I'm not sure how I feel. His asked me to move in with him and I want to but what if this becomes an issue I have high morals and standards and thought I wouldn't fall for a guy with baggage (no offence to anyone) coz I've had a tough life and didn't want the hassel I come from a good home of a little bit strict parents but I have sooo fallen for this guy my parents except him they aren't judgemental just protective they told me becareful i don't get hurt but apart from that they like him. I love kids but selfishly would like him to myself for a few years and want to have kids between him and I is this TOO selfish and do I have a right to be jealous and am I being shallow. How do I talk to him without making him feel like he can't see his son.
HELP PLEZ :confused: