Homosexuallity

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I am new to this and I am also 13 years old.I fell in love with this guy at my school and I know he is straight but evey time I look at him I fall in love all over again.My point is, I need comfort in my new begining of this stange happening.

I meant to say strange happening.

Well, I'm sure you've heard this before, but there is nothing wrong with being homosexual. Puberty can be a confusing time, especially when it comes to discovering your sexuality. I wouldn't recommend comming out to your friends and/or family right now, though, since ridicule at your age (and many others, for that matter) can be absolutely horrible, and I don't know about your family, but mine would disown me if they even suspected me of that sort of thing (I'm actually bisexual, for those of you who are curious about things that are none of your business). Other than that, I really don't know what advice I can give you... Just good luck with things, I suppose. shrugs

Yah, my parent would also disown me. But thank you.

the best thing i can say is fuck trying to define yourself. i believe sexuality is an entire grey scale. perhaps an entire color wheel. you ever seen one of those? there are shades and gradations of all sorts of colors that mesh into one rainbow on a grid or wheel. artists use them. anyways, i believe sexuality to be the same. all sorts of people like all sorts of different stuff. there is no way to put people into categories, you may come close, but there is no way to define everything in this world as an absolute. i know how you feel, i melt as well over certain people. in school i had the same troubles, and i usually end up liking straight guys as well. i happen to like both genders, but it goes beyond that for me. you are who you are and you like what you like, dont try to define yourself, and fuck people who try to define you. dont let anyone project their label or views onto you. as you get older you will develop and find out whats right in your universe. in the mean time, be careful, dont trust people, and dont worry about defining yourself. and one day you will find someone that feels the same about you, and you can melt together!

A lot said Anubis, and I thank you for that comment of a paragraph. (or vise-versa)

Yes, very well said, Anubis.

I considered myself hetero until a few months ago, then realised i had this thing for guys and began thinking of myself as bisexual......puberty confusion i guess. Thanks a lot for that post Anubis, it's made me feel slightly better about myself. My only worry is how I'll cope when I get into situations where I'm nude with other guys (which i haven't been in so far) like showers, etc. and those unwanted erections.

what is heterosexual anyway?

liking the opposite sex

glad some of you in this world can get something out of my dementia! haha!klopp, regarding being around other guys and getting boners, just treat these situations as pure clinical situation. like a while back i had to go to the doctor and hat to pull my pants down and junk, and no hard ons or nuthin. it was so sterile and clinical, there was nothing to turn me on about that situation. so if you are in the showers in the gym or whatever just focus on getting in, washing and getting the fuck out. dont look at anyone and dot think about nothin, except when you go home and then you can get boners over the hot guys in the shower! hahaha!and yay for no labels! woo!

i know how ya feel bub... LMFAO... im a bi, i know i am, and im in love with a straght guy at my school... lol he has even kinda caught me staring before.. lolthats was akward... but owell, lol he is won of those guys that acts like he is gay, but then u see him makeing out behind the movies with girls, and sometimes he hugs me aor calls me sexy, when he does that in my mind i pretend he means it, it sometimes makes me feel better.. even if its not right

Yea, i feel for you frog

I find that to be one hell of a talent. Maybe if you told this guy of your self suck ability he would willingly consider you. I'm not gay, but people in general need to really think about the ones they like, or love, maybe you should try to find someone who likes that stuff.

hello, my main question is 'frequent have you spoke to this guy you love'> how do you know for sure he doesnt feel the same way too you!! All though he may seem straight he may well be totally ass fucking gay lol... I mean many guys sseem to be straight but there not.. even if he has a girlfriend i think you should try adn talk to him.. If his your mate he will understand your feelings if not then what have you got to loose with asking him? PM so i know what your reply is.. GOOD LUCK DUDE

you do realize this is a dead thread?